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postr/StutterMar 21, 2016
13 points

And I thought job interviews were the worst part

And I thought job interviews were the worst part I thought I would never find a job. After dozens of interviews I was sure that the problem was my speech impediment, not the speech impediment itself, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2016
12 points

cant talk to them anyway i have a stutter whats the point...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 20, 2016
11 points

I know all stutterers speak more fluently alone, but do you also think more clearly alone?

I know all stutterers speak more fluently alone, but do you also think more clearly alone? The words I do get out when im in conversation dont accurately represent myself. My thoughts are also impacte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterMar 19, 2016
3 points

Job hunting is depressing, any recommendations?

Job hunting is depressing, any recommendations? I'm currently just going for the grunt jobs. Retail assistant, warehouse, whatever. There's loads of jobs that I get ready to apply for because they ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2016
1 points

+1 Stuttering set me on the path to never trying to date. But based on what I see out there; it doesn't look like I'm missing much....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2016
1 points

> The feeling after the presentation is just the worst, like my mind just won't function and cant get anything done for the rest of the day. I know how that feels. A 2-3 minute presentation can fe...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2016
3 points

Read everything you typed in its entirety. You're right you aren't alone! Having "cookie cutter" phrases you say with the words you can say right can feel so isolating, because you really aren't sayi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2016
1 points

This too shall pass, as rough as this may seem this too shall pass. > After my freshman year goes by we are forced to move to San Antonio sadly. A move is tough, you aren’t alone. It is really em...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2016
1 points

Well I don't think that the belief cannot be overcome - I think people overcome limiting beliefs all of the time. And I don't think it is the matter of flicking a switch and turning off a limiting bel...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2016
1 points

I find that school of thought useless, personally. Even if it were true that it was only a belief holding us back (I don't think it is, and there's more science out there supporting that than not), if...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2016
1 points

It is possible the belief, conscious or not, that "I can't overcome it" or "I am a stutterer" is an anchor holding us back? For those that have become fluent that I have read about, I wonder where the...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2016
1 points

Yea id recommend a psychologist too. Talk through your stuff. You the man. You gota know it. Stuttering is part of who you are, who i am. It is what it is. Dont use it as a crutch like I did through m...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2016
2 points

I live in Canada and I was also thinking of applying for a tax break too. my main reason for thinking of applying is because so many jobs demand excellent oral communication and during interviews my ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2016
2 points

Firstly i'm glad you took action to post and are trying to do positive things. It sounds like your mental/emotional issues extend beyond speech. Stuttering can play a part, but not even care about soc...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional Experience
Seeking TherapyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2016
1 points

Taking the easy way really only makes it harder in the future. I have been unemployed for these last two months. Mainly because I just feel too tired to look for a job. And every time I look through t...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2016
2 points

Thanks man. I really appreciate that you are willing to talk to me, although I’m not sure that I’m ready to Skype with a stranger one on one yet. But I have been thinking about joining some stuttering...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2016
5 points

I read it. Sounds like you're pretty isolated, but I can't tell whether you've decided you want to change that or not. Good luck though, either way, and well done on the weight loss, that's impressive...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2016
1 points

Honestly, you need to look at it as a life changing experience. Something that is going to change your whole personality, because if you don't, it will fail. Your introverted personality currently is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2016
1 points

Thank you for the response. I'm currently in the process of joining the McGuire Programme in Malmø, Sweden. The only thing that bothers me is that you have to live in a certain hotel, which costs arou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2016
1 points

I'm curious... do you stutter in English AND in your own language? I have definitely felt like you. I actually have contented myself with quite a solitary life for a long time. However, now I'm tra...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Situational VariabilitySeverity & FluctuationHelplessness & Agency