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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
5 points

See, I can understand how your condition may be worsening day by day in COVID period, but nothing to worry.... I am a stutter myself and I apply some principal for myself. First of all stuttering is ...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
3 points

Social worker here. I used to really struggle on the phone, whereas face to face wasn’t too bad. When I shared an office, I would often try to find another space to make calls without others around. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
1 points

I’m taking a public speaking course in college!! I didn’t chose to it’s a graduation requirement but yesterday I had my first speech. It went terrible but at this point I expect it and I don’t care as...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifePublic SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
1 points

Hi there! Your post made me sign up in here to share my own insights as a stutterer. First of all, your guy is very lucky having a girl like you who cares! I'm 34 and have been stuttering heavily sinc...

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commentr/StutterAug 27, 2020
2 points

To the anxiety To go to work, i ride a train for more than an hour While sitting in the train and walking around the station I notice that im not worrying about how im walking, how other people look ...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
9 points

I’ve become very observant because I’m usually listening and watching instead of talking in a group setting. Colleagues and close friends come to me for my take on things, such as new people, projects...

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commentr/StutterAug 26, 2020
2 points

It has made me more withdrawn and kind of socially awkward lol. But, I've been working at it slowly but surely and am not so shy now. But, I do try to always make people laugh or I always try to fill ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
7 points

Became that quiet guy, also made me anxious so I don't speak often because I think they are making fun of me and my stutter....

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
2 points

it depends, but when im alone at home (and my camera is turned off) and im not "masking", it gets way worse, i do it harder...

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Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 25, 2020
17 points

It’s made me into a completely quiet person in which I will only go out of my way to talk to the people closest to me. 👽...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2020
8 points

The thing that us stutterers worry about is how we're perceived. That leads to us shying away when we stutter, worried about how we're going to make fools of ourselves. If your talking confidently, op...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2020
3 points

Hmm I'm surprised that your family and friends haven't noticed that you stutter, those are usually the first ones to know. I'm what they call a covert stutterer, meaning I use filler words when I talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2020
2 points

In my experience, my stuttering gets worse the more nervous I am. The more I think about my inability to speak naturally are also the times when I experience it the most. It's possible you are having ...

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commentr/StutterAug 21, 2020
3 points

It's something I've sort of gotten used to, I guess. In my job, I have to communicate with many people in many ways, so I'm very familiar with the various ways in which it can feel. I'm not afraid, an...

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postr/StutterAug 20, 2020
11 points

After building up my confidence and starting to own my stutter, I fell 1000 steps backward again.

After building up my confidence and starting to own my stutter, I fell 1000 steps backward again. It took me so long to get the point where I stopped caring what people think and show confidence about...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2020
4 points

I have never done volunteer work but that sounds like a great idea. I love pets and will probably look into volunteering at an animal shelter. I agree I am too much in my own head. Judging by my wordi...

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Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterAug 20, 2020
10 points

Does anyone else feel like masks are a god-send for someone who stutters?

Does anyone else feel like masks are a god-send for someone who stutters? I usually block when I stutter, and masks give me so much comfort. I feel like before when someone was able to see my whole fa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 20, 2020
3 points

This seems like a nice temporary solution to your stutter. Not gonna lie I might've done the same thing. At the same time I hope you do not apply these "outs" to every aspect of you public speaking o...

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postr/StutterAug 20, 2020
6 points

i found a way to get out of speaking in my zoom class

i found a way to get out of speaking in my zoom class in my algebra class, our teacher calls on us randomly to read and answer questions (worst thing ever), so i disabled my internal microphone on my ...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2020
2 points

Stay strong my dude. I've also been feeling down as my stutter has gotten extremely worse now that I'm at home not doing anything and not talking to anyone. Before COVID, I found going out of my comf...

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