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postr/StutterJun 26, 2023
42 points

I went on a dreamed solo trip and it was the best decision ever

I went on a dreamed solo trip and it was the best decision ever I went on a solo trip to a foreign country for a week and it was the best decision I have ever made. I think everyone can relate to th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
6 points

I have no idea why, but I'm in the most extroverted job given that I am so introverted. I am a national trainer for a large medical facility, and I train medical staff (doctors, nurses, social work...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
1 points

A stutter if severe which I have makes me feel isolated, I am a shell of my former self and all I want to say cannot be said I’m guess I’m automatically stupid to people sadly...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Loneliness & IsolationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
3 points

“A person who stutters” is as much an identity/self image to uphold as anything else. You will never make it out by constructing and supporting that self image. What if you didn’t even say the word “s...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
1 points

Slow to the party, but this used to be me, until I started working with a guy that stutter. You notice the stutter for 2 weeks then it just filters out and you don't really care any more....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Listener ReactionsIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2023
1 points

I also want to address your belief that learning to speak without stuttering shouldn’t be the goal. This is not your idea. It’s the lie pushed in your head by the stuttering cure business! It goes aga...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2023
5 points

Agreed, person who stutters (sometimes) is much better than stutterer…...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 25, 2023
8 points

Quote from my book: Re-defining stuttering

Quote from my book: Re-defining stuttering Hey I just wante to quote a paragraph from my book it may help. "Another thing that´s killer is the label "stutterer". Talk about being it -labels are nefar...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2023
2 points

I am 20 years old and currently doing my undergraduate and yes, I have cried a lot because of my stuttering. School was a bit cruel for me but there would come a point where I got tired and stopped c...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2023
3 points

If you reached subconscious fluency in 2015, then your stuttering is now about 8 years in remission. The thing about relapses is, that we stop believing in our feedforward system, when you actually al...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

Yes, he doesn't seem bothered by his stutter. He's not hesitant to speak in groups of kids and in public...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2023
1 points

>He doesn't seem to mind, or be bothered by it Are you talking about his stutter overall?...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 21, 2023
1 points

24f/stutter/anxiety/unemployed/dealing w/ schizophrenic mom

24f/stutter/anxiety/unemployed/dealing w/ schizophrenic mom I had graduated from college in 2023 in speech pathology and after graduation I have only worked odd jobs in past 3 years (1) gopuff (ware...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2023
2 points

It's all in our mind, what we think we become, right from my childhood I used to stutter and i gradually came to a point that this is who I am and there is nothing that I can do with this and this mad...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Mindfulness & BreathingIdentity & Self-PerceptionTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2023
3 points

I am a brave enough person, but stuttering prevents me from communicating normally with people, every dialogue equals humiliation.My dream is to be a history teacher and my goal for this year is to co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & Anger+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2023
1 points

You arent alone❤️ my dream job is also to become an Actor but my Stutter made me think that i couldnt become a actor so i pretended to wanna become a Chef. When i talk to people and i stutter i try to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
5 points

I always daydream about being able to speak freely without my stutter. I’ve always imagined my life would be soo different than it is right now. But what can we do, that’s life we don’t always get wha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
7 points

If you have a stutter your gonna stutter at times, sadly not much you can do about it other than just let it happen and move on. Try not to dwell on it too much because most people don’t care and will...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
1 points

There is no need to classify your stuttering unless you want to classify it as “I may occasionally stutter”. Be careful of the labels you put on yourself the mind tends to want to live up to them and ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2023
2 points

If it comes up naturally in conversation, yes. (For example, I recently told someone on Hinge that I was bullied for my stutter as a kid because it was relevant to the conversation at that time.) But ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others