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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2016
2 points

Your stutter didn't ruin your relationship--you did, by not being honest and open or willing to really try. Do *not* blame your stutter for that. That is all you. The sooner you accept that accountabi...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2016
7 points

Has anyone's stutter ever gotten in the way of a relationship?

Has anyone's stutter ever gotten in the way of a relationship? We were both young and were both are main priorities. She was pretty, funny, and as socially as awkward as I was. We would text each othe...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2016
1 points

This is really relatable in a way. I am only 16 but my main fear in life is finding myself. I know I am still very young but it doesn't feel like it when so many people around me the same age are star...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2016
1 points

Did I say any of that shit to you about stop trying and go die? You can try as hard as you like but pretending to be able to do anything with a speech impediment is a pitiful joke. All I'm suggesting...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2016
2 points

Yeah you are totally right. I have been struggling a lot with that and my natural response is to just shut myself out from everyone and hide from the world. I think i am gonna be living in a lot of ho...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2016
3 points

I feel the same way. I completely isolated myself for about two years when i turned 18, dropped out of school and barely spoke two anyone for two years. It made my stutter much worse and i completely ...

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postr/StutterSep 18, 2016
20 points

Is it just me?

Is it just me? Hi all. I'm a 25-years-old boy who stutters since I was 4. I'm writing this topic because I'd like to know if what I feel is common among stutterers or not. I'm ver...

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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2016
1 points

You are so right dude. I discovered benzos and it vastly improved my speech, truly a miracle. However, I didn't want to be on drugs and benzos aren't meant to be prescribed for longer than I think 3 m...

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commentr/StutterSep 13, 2016
1 points

Hi, Thanks for replying. Coincidentally, I'm actually doing my homework right now, I know for certain I'll have to read it out loud tomorrow, so naturally I've spent the whole day stressing. I spend m...

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postr/StutterSep 10, 2016
16 points

Tough Week

Tough Week Sometimes I just do not get stuttering. I've restarted therapy and have been going for the past month. I've been noticing some improvements until this last week. I don't know what happened ...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2016
1 points

Yes be careful with benzos! And if you decide you want to come off them make sure you do taper off of it. Not just cold-turkey, oh shit I ran out of my meds. But a scheduled taper preferably under a *...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2016
3 points

This is a life dilemma for people who stutter. Me personally, I have never applied for jobs where you need to speak to customers a lot. Not because I avoid it but because my education is more aimed to...

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postr/StutterSep 3, 2016
23 points

Stuttering and Miscommunication

Stuttering and Miscommunication It's one of the saddest things. As people with stutter, many times we're unable to communicate when we want and how we want. This leads to us not communicating to other...

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2016
1 points

Sometimes, Yes. If I had stuttered really bad, I would only think about it and get depressed. It affects my work life. I have become lazy, I delay things, I avoid tasks....

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commentr/StutterSep 1, 2016
2 points

So many similar things to my life. I'm sorry bro, I haven't figured it out myself how to fix it yet....

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2016
3 points

"All I feel that's lacking in my life is a cute girlfriend. Talking with females has been my biggest problem and it just hurts knowing that I would do so much better with girls if I could speak fluent...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2016
3 points

Don't let your stutter limit your choices in life. You'll grow disappointed in yourself. For self confidence that's the worst stab. If you're not gonna get the job you're gonna look for the other one,...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2016
1 points

I'm happy for you for not letting it drag you down! If every stutterer would be like you stuttering might not even be a problem. The point about psychology is, if stuttering is mental problem, it's ca...

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commentr/StutterAug 20, 2016
3 points

Don't let how long it takes for you to speak, or how you sound get in the way of saying what you want to say. Life is to short for that. It takes a lot to overcome this. Your stutter shouldn't have to...

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postr/StutterAug 19, 2016
3 points

Any tips you would give to yourself in hindsight?

Any tips you would give to yourself in hindsight? I'm 14 (M) pretty much hate my speech but learnt to accept it after 10 years and have accepted I'll have this for the rest of my life. Long time lurke...

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