postr/StutterSeptember 18, 2016

Is it just me?

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Is it just me? Hi all. I'm a 25-years-old boy who stutters since I was 4. I'm writing this topic because I'd like to know if what I feel is common among stutterers or not. I'm very worried about my future. I'm not aware of who I am, what my skills are and what I'd like to do in the world of work. I'm just aware of what I can't do. I feel so confused. I don't know if I feel so due to depression or to the fact that I haven't gained long-standing experience because of isolation. Life seems so easy for my peers. They are fully aware of what they want to do and what makes them happy. They become engaged so easily. I don't even know if I want to live with a partner. Everything seems difficult, boring or trifling to me. I fell I missed an important stage of my development. I feel like a spectator of my life. Thanks to anyone who will reply me.

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Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life