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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I wasn't speaking about this post. Realistically, not everyone is gonna find a partner, even if you do everything right. That's something most people don't wanna hear...

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Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I'm sorry for your experience. Honestly I would say that this has happened to everyone here. Because we stutter and we take time to speak out our thoughts people avoid us. People who stutter have les...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

I am not attacking anyone. I 100% agree with you that only way to find peace is to accept the cards we have been dealt in this life and do our best. But to do that we cant pretend those cards are not ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

What? He didn't answer a single question I asked. I asked him does he consider stuttering a disability and he started talking about people with facial disfigurements and how mentally strong they are. ...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

Some individuals with stutters can, in certain cases, fall into psychological and social patterns similar to those seen in stereotypical incel communities. This does not apply to everyone who stutters...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

I understand what you're trying to say. I too have been coming across posts that call out those who were trying to vent, labelling it as demotivating. Even though it could be looked down upon as disco...

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2025
4 points

Making friends

Making friends Hi I need advice. I will explain in detail so maybe the post is going to be long I'm a freshman. Since college started I didn’t try to talk to anyone or make friends because I really h...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

You didn't answer my question. I will answer yours tho since I don't evade questions. I am relatively happy right now and I have a severe stutter. I am probably feeling better now than I have in a whi...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
0 points

If your stutter disappeared tomorrow, I 100% guarantee you would find something else to blame for your unhappiness. Stuttering is not the issue....

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

How is your 'poor me' attitude solving your problems or making your life better in any way? And why are there so many stutterers choosing to live a happy and fulfilling life compared to stutterers who...

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Mindset shiftHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

There's a very strong parallel to the 'incel' mentality, as in, 'it's everyone else's fault my life sucks and I'm not going to do one single thing to change my own life for the better. I'm choosing to...

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Helplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

Yeah, I have noticed as well - the sub has, particularly in the last few months, got in a very destructive mindset with suicidal ideation, "poor me" and similar stuff. And whenever it is pointed out t...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
2 points

>In my experience, people are attracted to those who believe in themselves. They don't see someone struggling with their stutter, they see someone overcoming it and that is an attractive quality. I a...

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commentr/StutterOct 22, 2025
1 points

There seems to be a lot of 'poor me' going around at the moment. A 'poor me' attitude doesn't cure any ailments and only creates a cycle of despondency that makes everything worse....

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postr/StutterOct 22, 2025
7 points

How am I supposed to accept my stuttering, if it is what causes the problem? How do I stop having anxiety around stuttering, if my stuttering causes the anxiety? we all want the same thing...to stop stuttering. stop forcing this "acceptance" shit onto me, I refuse to delude myself like you people do

How am I supposed to accept my stuttering, if it is what causes the problem? How do I stop having anxiety around stuttering, if my stuttering causes the anxiety? we all want the same thing...to stop s...

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Medicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

40% of men aren’t dating nor have a partner and we can’t know how much it would increase for someone with stutter but likely even more, im 16 and i’m happy for all of y’all in the comments married or ...

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Helplessness & AgencyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

This is really nice to here, since I had that for 16 years and lost it. Been single for 5 years now and sometimes it absolutely does feel hopeless. I honestly hope for the best and expect the worst at...

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Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

From what you described in the post, I think that man went well. But important to remember that one size does not fit all. I just like different speech therapy techniques does not work for every singl...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
5 points

Let's use your same reasoning but instead of stuttering, lets say we're talking about seizures. Why isn't the focus on the observer effect when a person has a seizure? Is it the interpretation of th...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

Completely wrong and off the topic. There is no speciality of being human. Even animals can also decide how to react. But thousands years of human evolution is the one deciding how will we react, if w...

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Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency