>In my experience, people are attracted to those who believe in themselves. They don't see someone struggling with their stutter, they see someone overcoming it and that is an attractive quality. I agree with most you said but this is 100% false and a cope. Confidence and belief in yourself does help but its not even close the the thing people are most attracted to. Your looks ,wealth and social skills are the most important. You can be as confident as you want but when you don't check the basic requirements what it means to be "desirable" your confidence doesn't mean shit. I would say as a man your social skills are the most important even more than money and looks. But when you cant say a sentence without choking to death that goes out of the door.