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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

Impressive. You read a lot about stuttering. Do you know where I can read about adults who overcame stuttering? Maybe you saved links? I am sure there are people who overcame these blocks. I am think...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
4 points

I went to the national stuttering convention a few years ago and talked to lots of women. The statistic that I found surprising is that women who stutter are less likely to get married than men who st...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

I have experienced and agree with everything you've written in your post, especially with this comment about the "cuteness" of stuttering women. I hate it, it annoys me so much even though they don't ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

Me being a female stutterer and not physically attractive: 🗿 didn't get bullied but they think im a freak....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

Your viewpoints are definitely true as having a defeatist attitude will do you no good. It's also reassuring to see that your peers are quick to defend you. I wonder if that is also the case with othe...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
7 points

Yea if I had a penny for every time a guy thought I was cute because of my stutter I’d be rolling in it. After a while it just gets irritating to be honest and you’re right there is also the element o...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

No to be honest I think the points you’ve made are perfectly valid. I would agree that men in this instance have it worse at least from the points you’ve highlighted, (I promise this isn’t gonna turn ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
24 points

As a woman who stutters: yes, it affected me a lot. I’m not ugly but not a supermodel, and the stuttering and social anxiety made it really hard....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
10 points

I was very much an introvert when I was younger either that or I’ve always been an extrovert but I just couldn’t show it because I was painfully shy and would just opt to be selectively mute at times ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

There's no way to answer this correctly without disregarding all your experience with stuttering but I'm still gonna lay it all out. I accept any consequences, roast me. Yes, women that stutter have...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
1 points

well im sure there is an aspect of cutenees associated with female stuttering, coming from anime i guess. some guys find it cute that a sweet little girl cant cant say something, in a childish way, wh...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
10 points

Interesting. I've actually never met a female who stutters so your perspective is unique to me. The only time I've seen a female stutter was on the show true life on MTV back in the day. When you say ...

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commentr/StutterJul 29, 2023
2 points

Yeah, if your attractive female or male, people would want to be your friend and partner. You get to have more social interactions, lessen you anxiety around people and talk more. You wouldn’t care wh...

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postr/StutterJul 29, 2023
33 points

Do you think your experience as woman who stutters differs to our male counter parts? / (For both men & women) how do you think things such as pretty privilege has effected your experience as a person who stutters

Do you think your experience as woman who stutters differs to our male counter parts? / (For both men & women) how do you think things such as pretty privilege has effected your experience as a pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
2 points

Mine is different, like with my friends during normal conversation I talk mostly fluent. But suppose to the same friend next day I meet him walking around in office, I will stutter asking any question...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

When I'm by myself I could usually say a handful of sentences, with people I'll have a block/prolonged letters(vowels, and long sound) typically every 3-4th word. Occasionally, ill have small blips of...

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

That sounds like it contradicts your other goals >improve my mentality (just stop caring about stuttering)...

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Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
2 points

I've been in speech therapy before as a young child and I've been to counseling multiple times as an adult but not therapy though. I couldn't really afford to go to a therapist or psychiatrist or what...

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
1 points

Yes, I was the same way too. It was so disheartening to see the look of horror and sympathy when they realized I has a stutter after being fluent previously. I really feel you. Sue...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2023
2 points

No matter what goals we achieve, stuttering is always there to humble you 😁, but honestly i cant complain....

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