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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
8 points

Registered nurse 30 f single i’m anxious every day I go in, but somehow I get through it. My patients speak highly of me. Also, somehow, I’m enrolled in a masters program now. I was told by a speech t...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
1 points

I can understand. I've had people think I was mentally challenged bc I talk slow when trying to think of words and get them out. If someone laughs, give them back a fake laugh and say "I know right?"...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
1 points

Mines mild. Made worse by stress and anxiety. Absolutely despise reading because I can’t filter out the words I struggle on. Noticed my stutter improves ten-fold with Prozac - anyone else?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
1 points

Well written essay, I enjoyed reading it. It is especially hard to deal with a heavy stammer during childhood, I've experienced it myself. What you said about it breeding compassion, humility, etc....

Community & SupportCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesTrauma & PsychologicalNeurological & Brain+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
2 points

mild but used to be severe a couple years back, i’ve just eased myself into making friends and at least slightly built my confidence. Sometimes it comes back in full force though, which makes me lose ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
2 points

Mine used to be pretty moderate as a kid but now it’s mild and only really comes out when I’m upset, angry, or nervous....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
4 points

Thanks for your help. Ya I def know what I got myself into but it just gets hard sometimes you know. The guy and I say hi and stuff already I am just nervous for when we have a conversation since we w...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 13, 2024
35 points

Rude Comments at Work

Rude Comments at Work I work as a hostess where I talk to people all the time. I get comments or people laugh and like it’s fine I brush it off. But I was already feeling emotional last night and toda...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
4 points

To me the essence of that phrase is "No one (worth spending the time to associate yourself with) cares if you stutter (if disclosed). Your coworkers probably won't care that you stutter. But right no...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
10 points

Because they don’t. The majority of people don’t care. They are way more concerned about themselves. The only time they do is that 1% of time. We tend to remember that one more…...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
5 points

You’re right, it is like an accent to some degree. But this doesn’t change the fact that now my coworkers are gonna think something is wrong with me. I’m worried my boss is gonna think I’m incapable o...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
1 points

I think "thinking that others think I'm stupid" plays a role in how strong I stutter. If you switch your mindset a little and don't expect people to think you're idiot, you're less likely to stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 12, 2024
3 points

Research study: "Management of stuttering using cognitive behavior therapy and mindfulness meditation" (2019) (I recommend reading this if your stuttering is more anxiety or psychological based)

Research study: "Management of stuttering using cognitive behavior therapy and mindfulness meditation" (2019) (I recommend reading this if your stuttering is more anxiety or psychological based) Resea...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Belief is "measured" through subjective self-reported data, i.e. questionnaires, whereas prediction errors through objective non-self-report measures, i.e. brain scans. These are two different realms ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Do you get stressed if you can’t solve a LeetCode problem? I feel anxious when I try to solve LeetCode challenges. I hate it....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Anxious Situations make stutter way worse

Anxious Situations make stutter way worse I have very bad anxiety/OCD even though I portray myself to others as a confident and outgoing person. In low stress environments such as hanging out with my...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

Math & Programming

Math & Programming All my life, I’ve never understood how someone who stutters can be good at math and programming. There are many stutterers who work as software engineers, but for me, the inability ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
12 points

The problem is, people don’t care what you say; all they care about is how you say it. The sad reality is that a foolish person who talks nonsense can find someone, but we, no matter how intelligent w...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
3 points

It's definitely a adrenaline/ptsd response in my opinion. Alot of us where probably humiliated as a kid and it created a stronghold or automatic fear reaction in our mind. Now that we're older it's al...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
15 points

Catfishing on dating apps

Catfishing on dating apps I feel like I am a catfish on dating apps, in the same way as if somebody hid that they sat in a wheelchair. I like talking online (for obvious reasons), but I know that the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more