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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

I would say that most of us are in our heads most of the time. Since I sometimes find difficulty speaking, I retreat inward. I would not make us some flamboyant frat guy, because that’s not us. We als...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
4 points

A huge part in any stutterers life is the "fakeness". Almost nobody knows a stutterers true personality. Generally shy,avoidant and fake smiling(or even fake rude) a lot because we are begging nobody ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

Indeed, avoiding people and conversations is a big thing such as saying hello to someone etc... they probs think im a bad mannered guy. Im just scared...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
1 points

I can relate very much... when im comfortable w someone tho i stutter less and am myself...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
5 points

I would say, at least with mine, I kinda create a persona of being quite or a jerk to avoid speaking even though that’s not my personality at all. Also avoidance is common with us. Also keep in mind t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

I don’t stutter when I’m gaming with friends, I’m much more calm and relaxed...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
3 points

This makes sense and happens a lot, also for me. I used to stutter in a more re-re-relaxed way. Once I became self concious about it and tried to fight it, it turned into blocks. The blocks happen whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
3 points

Im 35, and ive learned to piggyback on my friends to become more social. Same at work, i befriend few coworkers, and sortof use their social skills to put myself out there. For me the key has been to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+3 more
postr/StutterDec 6, 2020
13 points

Stuttering and Streaming

Stuttering and Streaming Hello everyone!!! I have a gaming channel where I upload highlights of my gameplay (self edits). I'm planning to start streaming games in the same channel and I'm super scared...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
6 points

I just did whatever prevented me from stuttering severely. When I was a kid I had almost no control over it, then growing up I started to hide it by making a "click" noise with my mouth whenever I enc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
2 points

Thank you. I am part of that group, I joined it this year. I have not posted anything on there as of yet. I am trying to build my courage to do so as it's Facebook and it's not anonymous, I feel a bit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
2 points

My throat gets dry, but I pass as fluent ~99% of the time to most people. My mouth does not get tired, but I speak gently most of the time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterDec 3, 2020
1 points

Absolutely nothing. Me and my parents literally denied it. I would try to get round my stuttering by building a large vocab of substitute words. Sometimes I would close my eyes in the middle of a co...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterDec 2, 2020
13 points

Help

Help Hi, I've had a stuttering problem since i was 7 ''now im 19'', i wasnt born with it and its not a mental illness, i cant say 2 full words without stuttering when im talking with people but when i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 2, 2020
1 points

Hey mate,I can completely relate to your struggles.Are you fluent in some scenarios like recording yourself alone or speaking to someone in particular?I think that it is imperative for you to experime...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

I’ve honestly thought of doing that. I’m seeing a speech therapist and I’m not stuttering Bc it’s become natural instinct to mask it with uhhh and stuff like that and it’s so annoying Bc she thinks I’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
9 points

Damn this was me 100% as a kid.... I hated school so much because I never could make friends and then I moved to 8 different schools from 5th-11th. The thing I struggled with as a kid was I never fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
3 points

No one cares about it as much as we do, and no one is as aware of it as we are. Most people are so self absorbed that they barely even notice...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
1 points

I feel like you’re already passed the scary part. You’ve been seeing him and spending time with him. The fact that your stutter isn’t prevalent around him probably just means you’re pretty comfortable...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 1, 2020
3 points

Thank you! And wow I'm digging the way you think as well 👌 I do believe stuttering is a defence mechanism when we are in a state of low self esteem. When we are in a higher state of self esteem, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking