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commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2020
8 points

I know I shouldn’t let it bother me, but it’s hard not to. I’ve always been very self conscious about my stutter. I had gotten pretty good at suppressing it and talking and clearly and normally as pos...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2020
1 points

This is exactly how I feel. Everytime I show any confidence I'm kicked down. It's nearly impossible to live the life I want without constantly being Ridiculed. It's taken a huge toll on my mental sta...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
8 points

Does this happen with y'all?

Does this happen with y'all? Some days when I practice speaking a lot before mirror, I barely stutter. However, barely stuttering on the sentences makes me very confident. I, then, get lost in thought...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
2 points

Each to their own, but if someone stood up to “defend” me I’d feel emasculated and humiliated. I’d rather be left to fight my own battles. But that’s just me....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
7 points

I always start with looking that person in the eye but as I begin to block and repeat, I look away. It makes me feel so awkward. 🤦‍♀️...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
1 points

I do that all the time. It doesn't help at all. For me, it's just a bad habit that stems from the embarrassment that comes with stuttering in social situations....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 3, 2020
4 points

It isn't a universal rule not to suggest the word for them. For example, I generally like it since it just saves me a bunch of effort and gets the conversation moving again. So asking what they want i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
3 points

This has happened to me a few times too, the most recent incident about a year ago. I was ordering take out over the phone, and the restaurant worker said “I’m sorry, but I think the connection is dro...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Listener ReactionsShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
6 points

My issue is making me want to lock myself and never speak to human beings

My issue is making me want to lock myself and never speak to human beings I never used to stutter not in English nor my mother tongue.. recently I’ve been stuttering, repeating myself, wrong grammar, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
3 points

Allow me a bit of bluntness: >I looked like a complete idiot. - So? Who cares? I just stuttered my ass off in front of a neighbor, trying to say something simple. So what? The communication ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
3 points

It makes so much sense to me! I to am a lifelong stutterer and have had and still have many of the same feelings as you...feeling inferior, like an outsider, not accepted etc. I am a bit older, 40...a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
postr/StutterJan 31, 2020
14 points

confidence and belief systems

confidence and belief systems Hey everyone. This is the first time I've posted here and I felt compelled to just reach out to this community because I have never been close to another stutterer before...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much for this. I had a really rough day cause I had to read in front of my class and completely embarrased myself but this helped!...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 30, 2020
34 points

My speech disorder has caused so many embarrassing moments and misunderstandings. Especially since I've mainly worked in fast food. It makes me want to never speak if I don't have to.

My speech disorder has caused so many embarrassing moments and misunderstandings. Especially since I've mainly worked in fast food. It makes me want to never speak if I don't have to. [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2020
3 points

This is truly AWESOME!!!! It took me 35 years to accept my stutter and to stop fighting it. Once I accepted it and frankly, I just didn't care anymore that I stuttered. That day was monumental beca...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2020
1 points

Right there with you. It happened to me today at a meeting. I’m like an idiot trying to say my name for what feels like an eternity in my head. It’s all I’ve been able to think about the rest of the d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2020
1 points

Happened to me a lot especially when i was in the high school damn i used to be terrified when somone especially a teacher ask me for my name One day a teacher asked me about my name and i just couldn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentExperiential Association
postr/StutterJan 20, 2020
11 points

I can’t say my name.

I can’t say my name. Im 29, been stuttering since im 8. I work for a big company and we’re always in meetings. I can talk just fine cause i developped a good technique, but when we have to introduce o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2020
1 points

If she reacts super negatively to your stutter during the date then she’s way too shallow and you should just leave. But I hope it doesn’t come to that for ya. Good luck and I hope she’s a good one....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2020
3 points

I'm still mentally scarred by what's probably the last time so I had to speak up in class. "Recrystallization" shall forever live in infamy :(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & Embarrassment