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postr/StutterNov 4, 2025
18 points

Bfs aunt told me to act “more special needs” to get “more food from the food pantry”

Bfs aunt told me to act “more special needs” to get “more food from the food pantry” My (28f) bf(36m) and I live together in our own apartment. We’ve been struggling as of late due to snap benefits no...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
6 points

I have had that problem my whole entire life, I have a bachelor's in computer science and instead of getting those jobs I get warehouse, production and assembly jobs instead and being denied to level ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
2 points

All the time, except I’m in Texas. I will simply ask a question and have a slight stutter and I get the look on people’s faces like “is this girl slow?”...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2025
18 points

That’s discrimination and illegal, however, proving they didn’t hire you because of your stutter would be an uphill battle unfortunately. Do you really want to work for an organisation that discrimin...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
postr/StutterNov 3, 2025
58 points

HR is hesitating to hire me just because I have a stutter

HR is hesitating to hire me just because I have a stutter I am looking for a mechanical design engineering job. I received many calls from HR team. Once they come to know that I have a stutter during ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
2 points

this is unfortunately true, as soon as u stutter you are automatically looked at as less no matter the person your speaking to. It’s just a natural instinct or habit....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2025
3 points

I swear the thing with having a visible stutter is that it gives confidence...to other people who than treat you like crap. I've had many such cases where a conversation was going well but than I stut...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
3 points

Mmm , this is the life of little moderate to severe stutterers. This is a serious problem like an ADHD or autism or OCD. Stutterers fight their way up in life despite no support from parents or teache...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterOct 31, 2025
16 points

I would stutter if I was "allowed".

I would stutter if I was "allowed". Anybody ever feel like if they were to stutter around certain people, they'd just make a big deal out of it? Like i would stutter, but I know some people would jus...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

Just ask them what’s funny? I think it also helps to establish that you don’t want jokes made about it. For example, I crack a lot of jokes, many of which are at my expense. So people around me also...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 31, 2025
1 points

Hey, I am sorry you had to go through that. Give yourself some time to reflect and contact the owner, write an email calling for some sensitivity training and how disappointed you are by the attitude ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

I build maps for the Forest Service. My first job was answering the phones and doing customer service at a skydiving facility close to my house. It was a struggle starting out with my stutter but even...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
3 points

Not really a problem in my experience but I’m sure it happens. Anyone who maliciously does it though doesn’t deserve your time or energy. I think we’re way harder on ourselves than anyone ever could b...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

Make fun of them back especially if they stutter for any reason then they usually stop...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
9 points

As a kid I told them to fuck off As an adult I tell them to fuck off One time a waitress made fun of my stutter and I get them fired. I don’t have no mercy or time for their BS 💀 They gone remembe...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
2 points

I honestly with more would laugh about it, instead of people walking on eggshells around me or thinking I am "slow" and will have a meltdown or tantrum if something goes wrong....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
1 points

Yeah. It's a totally normal thing to laugh and poke fun when someone flubs a word. Most people have no idea they're being insulting....

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
4 points

This is it. I haven’t had someone be malicious about it since I was like 11. I’m 35 now. I try to use it as an opportunity to build awareness....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
7 points

As an adult, I pretty never have people make fun of me. I do get strangers who make light hearted jokes sometimes that mean nothing by, they’re just ignorant. You know ‘did you forget your name?’ Or w...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2025
7 points

Honestly I've been pretty lucky with the people around me. I think I've only been mocked once and that was during a job (when I used to work freelance) and it really just took me by surprise and I jus...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying