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commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2025
4 points

Honestly just tell her, be genuine at least when I talked to people I NOTICED all the reactions even the ones they tried to hide and whether or not they truly cared or not i got on myself a little bit...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2025
1 points

Patience when they speak is very important at least with my son. And teach that to all in your family as well. Never help those who finish their sentences and never make them feel rushed. I’m sure som...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesLoss of Control
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

I usually say it in a more casual tone, something like: “Hi, before we get started I just want to let you know that I do stutter. It may take me a little longer to respond to your questions than oth...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 26, 2025
1 points

That’s true. We have to be our own best defense. Being unable to protect ourselves with words like others do makes us feel like sitting ducks. I realize that males have different vulnerabilities and ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 25, 2025
1 points

>What has worked for me in the past is letting the interviewer know that I do stutter, that it does not mean I’m nervous, that my stutter is not taboo and that they are welcome to ask any questions ab...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2025
3 points

I just say “ hey we are all different and my stutter is how I’m different “ or something like that depending on the age of the child...

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
9 points

Hey! Teacher here! I’ve been through this so many times. I usually just say some variation of “I stutter sometimes. It’s just how I speak and something that’s different about me. Lots of people have d...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2025
13 points

"I have a stutter, it's a disability due to my brain working a little differently, please be respectful and don't make fun of it, thanks" This is the answer I give to almost everyone who questions me...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2025
1 points

I still don't like to talk unless in person, even then it's always some anxiety. Iv just decided, it's who I am, why not use it as a way to let people ask me questions or practice their patience. I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2025
3 points

I am so sorry you had this experience. I feel you. If I was very nervous about my stuttering for a particular job interview, and I feel like it might be a car crash then I would start with telling the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2025
1 points

For interviews and presentations, what's stopping you from opening with, "Sometimes this happens to me, but in no way affects my performance,etc"?...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2025
3 points

Fellow stutterer here, I had my US visa interview, I told them, before starting " I have a small thing to say, I block on a few words, I have a speech issue/I stutter" Then most of the interview was ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
1 points

I had looked up ages ago and found that a teal ribbon is a symbol for stuttering awareness but it is also used for other issues' awareness. I was planning to wear it at my 1st conference poster presen...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Public Awareness / MediaSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2025
3 points

This reminds me of the ID card that was making its rounds a few years back after someone got stopped and searched at an airport. The stuttering of foundation of America was pushing it. It never gained...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Public Awareness / MediaSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
2 points

Completely ignore the stuttering. Don't mention it, don't finish sentences, just listen like you would listen to a non-stutterer...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
5 points

Plenty. I am spitballing here as it comes to mind: \- Don't finish their sentences, unless during a crucial moment and they are hung up, and then finish their sentences. They will appreciate it. I wo...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
2 points

Don’t force them to speak in public , such as ordering food if they don’t want to or if they look nervous ....

Coping & Advocacy
Self-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
4 points

Generally certain family members will stop listening to me if I start to stutter, therefore making what I have to say seem unimportant. Do not do that this person. Listen to them....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Listener ReactionsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2025
9 points

I have situational stutter and blocks as well, it’s very frustrating. I was once really scared that it would hinder my career, but the truth is that my career is unaffected. Not every employer expects...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2025
3 points

My husband and I met through a mutual friend. I stuttered when introducing myself and it was no big deal - I let him know I stuttered and would need a minute. Six years later and we’re married, have ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDating & Romance