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commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
1 points

This recently became en eye opener for me. For years I was able to hide or manage my stutter while being in leadership roles. Now I am at a point in my life where my stutter is trying to betray me it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
2 points

I never went to a speech therapy and my stutter is severe sometimes i cant even say one world without stuttering and sometimes it took me 10 seconds to just say a word no ones take me seriously i have...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
2 points

For me i feel that im soo stupid and cant do anything in life because i always stutter at everything so people dont take me seriously i feel like im different from everyone and people should treat me ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
1 points

I relate to this so much, I also stutter with my name i can’t say dha, and my name is dhaval, you feel embarrassed when you can’t say your own name, it’s hard to live with that,I also feel so much str...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 24, 2020
13 points

Need some advice

Need some advice I don't know how to start but I'll try my best. First of all sorry for my English. I'm a 26 years old male who has a stutter. I've been struggling with this since early childhood an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 23, 2020
13 points

Struggling :(

Struggling :( Hey, I am 23 year old Somali male currently working in retail (boring asf) I am mainly writing this post because I am at breaking point and need to do something before I destroy my life....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2020
1 points

Yeah I understand :/ I just hate it because it makes me sound alot dumber in person, especially when I'm only trying to talk to my mum. The one person I should have no problem speaking to in the world...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 23, 2020
3 points

I understand that completely. My stutter is at an awful point lately and although my mum has never out rightly said it, I could just see she was getting they point of "spit it out" which is one of the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerListener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2020
3 points

As I person who stuttered since I began to speak, I’ve had the same issue. I wish I knew the cause or reason behind this. In theory, you are basically talking to no one except yourself. But in reality...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2020
2 points

It's knocked my confidence greatly. Although I don't stutter all the time, I feel constantly tested / judged if I stutter or stumble on a word and it makes me feel like I can barely talk to people in ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2020
1 points

You have mental blocks with the people.That's why you lose your temper. Try EMDR Therapy for desensitization.They can erase negative feelings about stuttering and people. Being judged, humiliated, und...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2020
4 points

You have a mental block, such as you can not express yourself to somebody and you are afraid of being judged or humiliated if you fail to express yourself. An animal, a kid or a close friend doesn't ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

I couldn't make it through the first 5 minutes of King Speech as well, and real videos of people stuttering is even harder to go through, I'll be like, is this how I look? is this how I sound? like fu...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
12 points

I cringe at any video of anyone stuttering not just myself, makes me extremely uncomfortable and I have to turn it off, couldn’t make it through the kings speech because of this...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

Rant

Rant Hi im 18 and im about to go to university in 2021 afteer a gap year. since i was 11 my stutter has really put a holt on my life in the fact that i have held myself back on many occasions in my li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
51 points

Y’all ever just rewatch a video of yourself and just cringe at every point you stutter?

Y’all ever just rewatch a video of yourself and just cringe at every point you stutter? ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 20, 2020
6 points

Do you stutter more in person or when talking to person in phone?

Do you stutter more in person or when talking to person in phone? I wanna ask this because I stutter more when I'm talking to someone on my phone. I repeat words, then there's blocks, i struggle to sp...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
2 points

Hi Bastian, am Fasel from North Africa. I am sorry that you have recognized that you are a stutterer. I know it is a living hell when it comes to communicating with ppl. For me, I knew that I stutt...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
1 points

Yikes, those people are really rude and impatient. Glad I’ve only had to deal with very few of these ignorant types. I have a severe stutter (with long blocks) as well. Maybe it’s a geographical/cultu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 19, 2020
3 points

I know exactly how you feel. I was pre-law and my stutter took control and I switched majors from pre-law to Psychology. At 40, I stopped fighting my stutter and released the anger, shame and guil...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+3 more