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commentr/StutterAug 30, 2023
1 points

For someone with ocd this scared the crap out of me. I stutter alot and I’d never hurt anyone...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

There is not much you can do about your mother. Indeed, it is supposed to be the other way around. It sounds like she tried to help and maybe feels bad about herself that she couldn’t help more. Maybe...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

Personally, I don’t like it when anyone calls me a stutterer… I am a person with a stutter. So, I also don’t think I will be comfortable with being called a “serial killer.” “Person who kills a lot...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
postr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

So, apparently we are now also serial killers..

So, apparently we are now also serial killers.. I was browsing reddit and I happend to read a thread relating to a boy in Serbia that shot his classmates. Someone in the comments said he had a stutt...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & BullyingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

That is wildly unprofessional and offensive. The behavior deserves filing a complaint if you are so inclined. >Like he only made me realise how true my negative self beliefs regarding stuttering a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
2 points

Please disregard everything that person said. I don't know if they thought they had a strategy to elicit a response in you, or what their bizarro reasoning was. But whatever it was it was completely w...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

Maybe it can be overcomed? But I don't think every stutterer wants to overcome it. I personally don't want to overcome it. I feel like my stutter is a part of me and I don't wanna change it. Sure it c...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

I thought this was an easy answer for me but turns out: It's not. I'd like to drop my thoughts here and would love to hear about your opinion on it as well! :) Yes, I think you can overcome stutterin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 29, 2023
1 points

What’s your take?

What’s your take? Is stuttering something that can be overcome? Or is there no cure/ solution. What’s your reason behind your answer...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

Although I stutter, I do not identify as a stutterer. Rather, occasionally I have trouble speaking. Just changing your identity mindset helps you speak 5-10% better, and that's better than nothing. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindfulness & BreathingPhysical Tension+1 more
postr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

Starting to not like myself/ hate myself due to my stutter

Starting to not like myself/ hate myself due to my stutter I’m 23 and have been through it all with my stutter. Speech therapy in school, laughed at, humiliated, etc etc. I’m not really sure why but s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 28, 2023
1 points

Oh yeah, I know those feelings all too well and I'm glad you have supporting friends and made great improvements. Also, I'm pretty sure everything around stuttering is psychological. I've been mocked ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftValidation & Empathy+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

I'm 25 and my parents never took me to a speech therapy. I started to speak very late in my childhood many thought i was dumb but after tips and tricks by parents i started to speak at the age of 5 . ...

Parent & CaregiverSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetSchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

Great insight. Today with the Minecraft incident you had the chance of being **assertive.** Meaning expressing youself in a calm and natural manner (opposite to agressiveness) without fearing the judg...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

TIL That stuttering (at least for me) it's just a power struggle.

TIL That stuttering (at least for me) it's just a power struggle. What does the title means? Well, basically, thanks to one thing that happened to me today, and also thanks to some advices from the re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

Hey, welcome. ¿How old are you? It´s not healthy that your family teased and judge you for stuttering. They are the people you spend and will spend the most time with (probably). Very close enviromen...

Parent & CaregiverIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Early Concern & OnsetParent Emotions & GuiltIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

I accept the fact that as today I stutter and probably in the near - mid term future (at least 3 years). I know that eventually it will dissapear. **¿How do I know this?** Becuase it has already bega...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

During my 23th year. For so long I tried to hide it, for so long I didn’t even acknowledge I had it, that was the ‘s word’, something I didn’t even try to say. Things went downhill when just as I turn...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

This thought always makes me laugh. I say the same thing about being bald, with hair everyone would have to look at away. Ha. Positive reframe as they say. My vocabulary and memory are very strong...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterAug 27, 2023
1 points

Eureka Moment

Eureka Moment At what age did you come to the realisation that this stutter will likely not go away and that you have to learn to accept yourself and put yourself out there regardless in order to cha...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride