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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
2 points

No one will notice it and it's still better than stuttering....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
postr/StutterApr 6, 2021
31 points

entourage

entourage Hello Do people around you know that you stutter? I don’t think that my classmates or friends know it, because when I am somewhere where there are many people I preffer to stay quiet. But...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
4 points

In meetings this is the worst. Any time I speak up, immediately everybody busies themselves aligning their papers, inspecting their tea mug, admiring the wallpaper, etc. I find it rather amusing in a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
postr/StutterApr 5, 2021
8 points

Embarrassing others is the worst part :/

Embarrassing others is the worst part :/ Without fail, every time I have to pick up the phone, my co-workers will find a reason to leave the room and if they can't, they VERY clearly try to busy thems...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
3 points

What's your twitch so I can watch? Like Noodle-Fella said it's going to happen, don't be embarrassed when it does. Don't give up and the audience will barely notice it, if not completely disregard it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
3 points

I'm anxious about my stutter when I stream on Twitch

I'm anxious about my stutter when I stream on Twitch So, recently I started streaming, I have no problem with the streaming itself but everytime I notice that I stutter my brain just instantly goes "O...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
6 points

Are you entitled? Hell no. In fact, I'd argue that most, if not all, of the things you mentioned are doing more harm than good in the long run. These sound like avoidance techniques which generally l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 2, 2021
34 points

Told my coworkers :)

Told my coworkers :) It was awkward, not even gonna lie. But I feel a huge weight off of my chest. From their reaction, I’m 100% sure that they already knew, but the fact that I’m no longer feeling an...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

Definitely second. I stutter always, it not depends on anxiety or anything else. I stutter when I'm alone, when talking to myself, talking to my pets, etc. Anxiety makes my speech worse, yes, but it's...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationBlocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

Depending on what the phone call is for (such as tech support), it helps to know the person on the other side will never see my face or if they do it might just be for a short time (such as for a rest...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
17 points

about the link — I'm also the author of the piece. I've stuttered my entire life. It was severe when I was younger and mild these days. Most people don't notice I stutter, but certain situations make ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & ConcealmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

I went into a career in logistics and am now making more money than a lot of the other people in my company because my performance doesn’t rely on my voice all that much. I know a lot of advice with s...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 31, 2021
19 points

RANT

RANT Ok I’m sorry if I come across negative, having one them days. Anyone here feel that they get paid less then others in their jobs compared to other coworkers even though you work harder than them...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
1 points

100%. That's my go-to when I have a block show up. I had my therapist ask me about it once. When I told him why he was surprised because he never knew I even had a stutter. It's obviously noticable...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
1 points

100%. That's my go-to when I have a block show up. I had my therapist ask me about it once. When I told him why he was surprised because he never knew I even had a stutter. It's obviously noticable...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
1 points

I do this all the time when I’m on video calls. You are right, it helps to block things and let you focus. You are not alone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
1 points

I do the same thing. It’s something I’m trying to work on but it’s been difficult because its just such an instinct to look away when I stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
1 points

For me it's opposite. I have blocks when ever I break eye contact or rather I should say I break eye contact when ever I suffer blocks....

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
4 points

No, I don’t. My speech therapist analysed that I had a habit of constantly looking away whilst talking which really increased my stuttering, but when I maintained good eye contact, the blocks reduced ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
15 points

We break eye contact bc we feel embarrassed and ashamed. One of the first steps to confronting your stuttering head on is maintaining eye contact no matter what. It’s hard to do but work on it and it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation