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commentr/StutterMay 27, 2024
11 points

More than age, it's a thing of mindset and how you view your stutter. Getting older doesn't necessarily mean your stutter will get better unless you take steps to make it better. By that, I don't mean...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
2 points

this is so accurate to my situation. ask me “where do you go to school?” “I go to school at [STUTTER STARTS HERE]”. It’s always the most important word. when it comes to dopamine, when I am on Adderal...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med Outcomes
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
2 points

Maybe not really as overcoming the stutter but rather overcoming as in, the way he speaks. He is able to finish a sentence and say what something is about but not really how he wants to say it. I gues...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
3 points

Oh defiantly I’ve experienced it, I’m almost 30 now and it’s not as bad as when I was younger but from time to time it does get to me and I’m depressed af about it because I look back on the things I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
2 points

Same issue I just prefer working from office because my stutter gets really bad on phones...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 26, 2024
17 points

I stutter! and that's my Lingo! A refreshing approach to living with a stutter

I stutter! and that's my Lingo! A refreshing approach to living with a stutter Lets start this with a Question? -what if as a stutterer i was never meant to achieve fluency? -what if stutter is the na...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterMay 26, 2024
8 points

Types of stuttering.

Types of stuttering. I call my stutter a silent stutter, it happens before I evern start the first word and it make me look like it a tick of some sorts. That's how it it today. When I was younger it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
3 points

Do you think I should apply for a wfh position that requires inbound calls? Most wfh positions are phone-based. For reference, I have a mild stutter, at least most of the time when talking to people i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
1 points

I believe, the severity of stuttering I would say, is mainly contributed to: (1) stuttering **anticipation**, reliance on secondaries / avoidance behaviors, and understandings / beliefs that trigger b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
1 points

Sometimes, i know girls who are cute when they stutter but I also have a friend who fights his stutter and makes random loud noises to find his way through, as a stutterer myself its still hard not to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
2 points

I agree. I think it's principally a behaviour 'learnt' young, often so young it becomes a foundational part of speech. It's a complex thing that has many factors which can lead to it being 'learnt'. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
-1 points

When I was 10-11 years old, I had a classmate who would try to imitate my stutter. And he eventually developed it. Then we moved to different schools. Years later, I found him on social media. I asked...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family Factors
postr/StutterMay 26, 2024
31 points

one of those stuttering moments that just hurts too much...

one of those stuttering moments that just hurts too much... This hurts. I’ve had a stutter for as long as I can remember (overcomed it finally, but took many, many years), and one of the most frust...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
-4 points

IMO, I seriously think stuttering is a learned behaviour rather than genetics. Children imitate parents or important people in their lives to gain their approval. If a child sees his parent stutter, h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2024
1 points

Every day I have to talk to someone, my stutter comes up and I get looked at as a joke. It hurts. When Im asked my name I just hand them my Id, or spell it out. Makes it worse when they keep asking wh...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/stutteringMay 25, 2024
4 points

i feel like i’m dying.

i feel like i’m dying. i’m really suffering, and need to express what i’m going through to some people that might understand. for the past 10 months i’ve been stuttering progressively more, scaling up...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2024
3 points

Same here. The worst is when I do actually get it out fluently the first time and then someone asks me to repeat, and inevitably I block all over the place...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2024
3 points

Well I guess I just became a more easy going person and sometimes you hear that in my speech now. But now I have tics and a couple of diagnosed mental things so you could say my issues “shifted”...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2024
2 points

If you don’t mind me asking but what do you mean by you changed the way you talk? Can you elaborate more on that...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 25, 2024
4 points

For me, it’s a disability. Literally. I want to say the word… I know how to say the word… but in many contexts I am unable to say the word. Lack the “ability” to speak fluently. We are lucky this is...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Access & RightsQuality of LifeSituational Variability+1 more