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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
2 points

I’m basically a software engineering manager. Client-facing, and spend maybe 30% of my week in calls at various levels. My stutter is pretty mild these days, blocking is my main issue. I’ve developed...

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postr/StutterJun 14, 2024
20 points

I started a new job and it’s making my anxiety spike, idk what to do

I started a new job and it’s making my anxiety spike, idk what to do So I’m 20 and I’ve wanted to be a bank teller for about a year now, I finally got a bank teller job and I love the job itself...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
4 points

Sales Admin. Talking to walk-in customers, phone calls from customers, salesmen, vendors, other company branches, etc. I stutter the most on the phone. It can be quite frustrating/embarrassing, but ...

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commentr/StutterJun 14, 2024
10 points

I have to speak in meetings and when working with other people. In my experience, trying to avoid speaking has only made my stutter and my fear worse. But again, no one has ever cared about my stutter...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
5 points

I used that exhale trick all the time!!!!! There are particular letters I would get stuck on (words that started with “w” or “m” most prominently) so I just got really good at word switching or descri...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
7 points

As a hostess, you should prepare yourself for ANY type of customer and always have a few quips ready to react with. Some people enter a place angry or start fighting their spouse minutes after being s...

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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2024
15 points

Mild stutter. It was pretty bad during my schooling days. But slowly overcame it. Now I do get blocks but I have developed the confidence to speak even after getting blocked. Public speaking is still ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
13 points

There’s no way of really “winning “ when you are dealing with the public. I have found the best thing to do is to rehearse a speech tree and to find words or phrases that are easy for you to say an...

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Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
1 points

DM me know if you want to talk about it. I’m sure what you’re going through is true for most of us, and it’s true for me as well. Over time I’ve learnt strategies to manage my stutter, which has put m...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
1 points

I'm also struggling with stutter since I was little and what's helping me is doing speech therapy. Stuttering draws you back in life only if you let It do It, so doing speech therapy is the best way t...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
4 points

I try to be. I’m an extroverted guy but when my stutter suddenly appeared when I was 15. Now I can’t do presentations as fun as I want in schools anymore. :(...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
15 points

What type of jobs? Do they require social interactions or is it just the interview part that you find intimidating? If I was you, I'd write a letter and bring it along to the interview. It might alle...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
6 points

Hi ! First : you are very brave, because it need a lot of guts to endure that. I think that what you experience, many here have experienced. The start of a professional career and social interaction ...

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commentr/StutterJun 12, 2024
12 points

I've unfortunately come to accept shit like this. Not in the sense that I wouldn't either threaten to sue or just walk out. But I don't even get mad anymore it's happened so much. Maybe I'm getting ol...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

Ye I do, but if you tried your best and still cant crack it go and watch a video explaining it. Most leetcode questions follow similar techniques and algos....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
3 points

Hey there Aidan, I too attended HCRI last summer, if I remember correctly I was in the second to last class they offered. I will be entering my third year of university this coming semester. Similar...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
2 points

I have mild stuttering, and did some programming previously. I like that programming can be performed with minimum social interaction physically. There are many collaborative tools such as Git and Con...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

I know it works for some people but it never worked for me, like looking in the mirror and telling myself I'm 6'5...

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postr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

Math & Programming

Math & Programming All my life, I’ve never understood how someone who stutters can be good at math and programming. There are many stutterers who work as software engineers, but for me, the inability ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2024
1 points

30 year old male here, I don’t usually post anything on reddit but I feel my words would help some of you… I don’t remember when I started to stutter but my childhood was traumatic. My old man was v...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception+3 more