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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
7 points

Mate, these things happen. It's all about content, not delivery. I'm sure you've done brilliantly despite the fluency and your merits will be well deserved. To present in front of people takes courage...

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postr/StutterJun 29, 2021
27 points

My greatest piece of advice

My greatest piece of advice My greatest piece of advice.. Stop focusing on improving fluency. That peice of advice has allowed me to live the life I have dreamed. And that's not an exaggeration. I...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
9 points

I assure you, you aren't going to get fired. That's your stutter puffing out its chest and trying to intimate you. Don't let your stutter push you around. I worked at McDonalds when I was in my early...

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commentr/StutterJun 29, 2021
2 points

Depends on the severity of your stutter and your interviewer. Always have a backup plan, it will lighten the load during the interview....

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
12 points

You won't get fired for stuttering or anything like that but mentally prepare yourself for customers to be rude. I used to work the drive thru at a McDonald's and it was brutal, but all my managers we...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
7 points

I would say it depends on the severity of your stutter. If it's mild then don't notify them. If it's so severe that you feel the need to tell them, then tell them. It's not something the interviewer s...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
23 points

You are your own biggest enemy in this. When we are in "high pressured" situations like a job interview we put way too much value into trying to be fluent. The interviewer wants to see that you're...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
3 points

I dont think this is relevant.Covert stuttering means actively hiding your stutter,but i have nothing to hide-when i talk,i dont stutter....

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2021
2 points

I've had a mild stutter since childhood-My last several jobs all involved significant phone time. I have found that once I get in the rhythm and become comfortable with it, it becomes second nature. T...

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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2021
2 points

I hate the new automated phone lines which are like "*please recite your reference number so we know where to send you*" ... "*Sorry, I didn't catch that, please try again*". Why the fuck can't I j...

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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2021
7 points

For some reason I find phone calls better, because the person can’t see my weird mouth movements/struggling, and often I can start preparing to say a word physically before I actually need to say it...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
7 points

And they ask you for a number (card, insurance whatever) : And then they repeat it and it's wrong D:...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
3 points

Same for me. I attribute that to body language. For some reason, it makes me more confident to be in front of the person instead of having to rely only on my voice....

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
2 points

If I were you, I'd try to adopt a "who cares what this person thinks" mindset. Especially for situations like ordering food and giving them your name. I stutter on my name all the time when ordering o...

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commentr/StutterJun 26, 2021
1 points

I am not sure. Definetly, it was an handicap. When you want to say something and that your own body doesn't let you do it, it's an horrible feeling. On the other hand, it has also pushed me to try t...

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
5 points

The Stutterer's Dilemma: No one is listening because of my stutter. My stutter worsens when people are listening....

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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2021
1 points

I second this, I feel as though for me, it's also the reminder that tons of people could be then watching the vid once uploaded online that it's an imaginary audience in the sense to really 'impress'...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
3 points

First time commenting, but I am a military officer and had a very tough time during my first tour, due to my stutter. Due to the high stress environment it went from mild to sometimes severe. However...

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commentr/StutterJun 24, 2021
1 points

Some people can learn how to swim by being thrown into deep water. Others will "suffocate" (of course you won't die because you stutter, but you'll traumatize yourself even more and reinforce the stut...

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postr/StutterJun 23, 2021
4 points

Stop telling yourself lies

Stop telling yourself lies As the title says.. There's probably no help for us, we'll stutter (in my case-speech blocks) for our entire lives, sometimes we'll be fluent, sometimes not.. We all know th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking