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commentr/StutterSep 16, 2019
1 points

Next time something like this happens look at the after effects.. Look at the unpleasantness of your state of mind.. in fact, look at the unpleasant feeling, say to yourself:"There is a feeling. There...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2019
3 points

If it was a word I would really stutter on badly then I would feel kinda ok about it.. But at the same time I will get this feeling that I am not good enough or stupid that I can't even say a word flu...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2019
3 points

I hate that line of reasoning. "He's young, he doesn't completely know what he's doing!" Okay, so teach him. Correct his behavior before it becomes a pattern. Don't just let a problem continue. At...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2019
1 points

This is easy advice to give but harder advice to live. Some people are impacted more severely by the emotional/psychological component of stuttering than others....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2019
1 points

Well , I used to cry alone after a severed stuttering speach and it felt good , but the consequences weren't as expected as I rely on crying , depression and sadness became my default mood. Now I feel...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 13, 2019
3 points

Does it get better after your twenties?

Does it get better after your twenties? I'm 22 and it's around this time that people I went to high school with are getting great jobs, getting engaged/married, etc. My best friend got engaged today, ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2019
5 points

I sometimes think about that. I know I shouldn’t dwell on things like this, but I ask myself “How far would I be in comparisons to my current self if I didn’t stutter?”...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2019
5 points

I agree, and often feel like I have a major disability. Then I look at my cousin who is a paraplegic (car accident) and he hand built a damn house boat. This was not to discredit your feelings (as ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 12, 2019
42 points

I sometimes like to think that if life was a videogame...

I sometimes like to think that if life was a videogame... we stutterers had chosen hardcore dificulty. It helps me to not feel useless or faint-hearted, because it is a very severe handicap compared t...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Helplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2019
2 points

I get how you feel. I also had trouble finding a job despite my good education. The only thing that helped me in these kind of situations where I don't see a solution is God. "I prayed to the Lord, an...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2019
4 points

ikr... I feel so stupid and confused at my own life right now. been researching what an ent is. apparently is like a tree spirit....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2019
1 points

I used to have many like singing, dancing but now all gone,maybe due to inferiority complex. Now i am more confined to myself only....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2019
1 points

When I read yr blog I remembered my case 2 yrs ago before I get my first job after graduating from University. I conducted around 8 interviews ,some of them I thought I did fine and well presenred mys...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2019
2 points

My middle/high school years was shit bcos of isolation so i tried a new life approach by putting myself out there since i turned 18, now 23 and things haven't got any better. I always die inside when...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2019
3 points

Ik this feeling man. I have a very severe stutter, to the point that I've stopped answering phone calls. When i have to pick one up like from a teacher etc, they usually cut off b4 i could get 'Hello'...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2019
1 points

Severe anxiety and depression is exactly when you need a therapist. If you’re past experience with therapists tells you that it won’t help — you’re seeing the wrong therapists. Tell a therapist how yo...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2019
6 points

Hey man, I can appreciate what you are going through. But it sounds like you need therapy. A Reddit pep talk is not going to cut it. You will need real coping tools to deal with the problems you ar...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterSep 4, 2019
20 points

Wish the life was short...

Wish the life was short... Hello fellow sufferers, I am new here and have been reading this reddit for quite some time and i can see there are many who are going through same level of suffering as i...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2019
1 points

i guess we all can totally relate. I am 26 and have been stuttering all my life. didn't go to university after college because of this stutter. and all the things you are going through, i am still exp...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2019
3 points

Sadly there is no crash course or a quick fix . Otherwise this subreddit wouldn’t have existed . For many stuttering affects career & personal life , all I can say you are not alone in this . Ke...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & Concealment