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postr/StutterJun 22, 2024
5 points

Fear about Work

Fear about Work Hi! I'm 16, and Ive never had a job, but in a month I'm going into Work Experience at this cafe, and I'm so nervous, because my stutter gets really bad in social situations. Does anyon...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
2 points

So I have a middle name and for some reason that’s easier to say than my first name so I just say that and eventually they will learn my real name...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
0 points

Pretty much everything you stated is 180 degrees incorrect. It may be a language barrier or some kind or fear of admitting the need to let others hear your repetitions. There’s also no such thing as...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
2 points

I also do the combination of both if I feel I am gonna stutter a word in a certain language 🤣🤣🤣...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 22, 2024
13 points

I hate stuttering

I hate stuttering Need advice from people who also stutter, how the hell do yall talk in conversations and not get embarrassed when you stutter. I usually stay quite and to myself even tho I’m not tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
4 points

You’re absolutely right, sorry I didn’t acknowledge that part. There are people who will be fucked up and say things. However I have never encountered those people in my adult life. When my wife and I...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
1 points

Haha! It happened to me many times when I think about it now. I instinctively show my phone, even my watch, as I tell them the time. I've never stuttered so bad, so it seemed normal but incase I stu...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
1 points

I edited it for clarification. Also, read my post explaining it in more detail. But ultimately, before I allowed others to hear my repetitions, I did tons of hiding and had literally written my res...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
1 points

I was coming from university and an old man gave me a piece of paper and asked me to read for him. And I just said I don't how to read and left, 🤣...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
4 points

Recently I’ve been allowing myself to stutter. I went to see the director of a company to speak about work experience and I decided just to stutter because I realized it would be easier to take long...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
0 points

Nope. You should not engage in voluntary stuttering. It will make it worse. What one should engage in is speaking despite the stutter when you have to. It's the worst thing to go out of your way to st...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
2 points

I try to hide and actually that is the real problem. Stuttering is not the problem. The problem is I try to avoid situations amd opportunities that demand talking and talking well...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
3 points

Interview

Interview Feeling like I bombed an interview today- just couldn’t get the words out. But hopefully my resume will speak for itself 🙏🏻 ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
2 points

“Less” and “won’t work” aren’t very descriptive. I said “less impactful”. If you engage in voluntary stuttering, your stutter will impact your life less by making it easier for you to express your...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
4 points

Stutter specifically when switching languages. Can anyone relate?

Stutter specifically when switching languages. Can anyone relate? Heya! So, I come from a dual language household in Ontario Canada. My father is english and my mother is french-canadian. I was raised...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
7 points

Hope this works :)

Hope this works :) Recently I found this interesting technique about reducing stutter. If you bounce every syllable like a ball, going up and down, it helps reduce the stutter, at least for me. I woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
5 points

I joke I am still trying to get my first word out, and I taking a break from it by saying other words instead....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
9 points

This is the answer, OP. Efforts to avoid stuttering will begin to fail…...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
27 points

Do you allow yourself to stutter or try to hide it?

Do you allow yourself to stutter or try to hide it? I always go ‘human-thesaurus-mode’ and try to skip around the words I actually want to say (often leading to me saying things in weird ways I think)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
1 points

Maybe an unpopular opinion but this is just selfish… I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and assumed you made the decision in a millisecond out of panic....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution