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postr/StutterAug 5, 2024
24 points

I'm helpless, I cannot talk and it's getting worse day by day.

I'm helpless, I cannot talk and it's getting worse day by day. I've had stuttering since my childhood and It never stopped, I avoided public speaking, class teaching, volunteering and talking to stra...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencySchool & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/stutteringAug 5, 2024
1 points

Stuttering and professional career

Stuttering and professional career Hello everyone How do you deal with your stuttering in your professionnal life ? Personally, I'll have to go for interviews in a few weeks to find an internship to ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
10 points

Yeah, I feel the same way sometimes. Every time I talk about it with my parents, they tell me it's no big deal and that it's all in my head. But they don't get it. No one does except us people who stu...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterAug 5, 2024
15 points

No one gets it

No one gets it This has probably been said a thousand times on this sub, but just having a bit of a dull and depressing moment with my stutter and I feel no one gets it and no one will. I like to thin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 5, 2024
6 points

I have a mild stutter and I hide it really well, most of the time. I also have social anxiety, so I didn't date that much really. I met my current girlfriend (and future wife) on a dating app and we'v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
3 points

I have a mild to moderate stutter, but it can get pretty bad when I'm anxious. I've been on like 5 dates but I've never had a relationship, but I am only 19....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
9 points

I have a mild stutter and I'm Asian with a kinda heavy accent, average look but I do work out. I just took all my courage to ask this cute girl for lunch and she said yes. I'm super excited but worrie...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
3 points

Counterpoint, In a world that is primarily dominated by your ability to make connections, and having something potentially impeding that, its no surprise people will think "if I only was able to voca...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 4, 2024
3 points

Great post! **My summary**: (of the post) **Disabusing beliefs (especially the identity)** * The "ideal self" is shaped by societal expectations especially when it comes to communication * Society ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterAug 3, 2024
3 points

Stuttering when nervous

Stuttering when nervous Sometimes I can speak perfectly clearly and concisely; however, whenever I feel even a slight bit of nervousness, I instantly get a block in all of my words. This happens to th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
postr/StutterAug 3, 2024
15 points

What's your secrets

What's your secrets How have you overcome any anxiety/insecurities caused by your stutter....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentAdvice Requests
postr/StutterAug 3, 2024
0 points

IYO, Is stuttering simply a consequence of using our mind in a maladaptive way?

IYO, Is stuttering simply a consequence of using our mind in a maladaptive way? My stuttering is genetic because my mum stutters.. still.. **This doesn't mean we can't speak fluently** if we: 1. do...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Genetic & Family FactorsOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
1 points

I have a question about: "*if correlation does not imply causation*".. if stuttering has an association with tension, anxiety, and anticipation.. How do we know for certain if these factors are truly ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
1 points

>"*I tend to stutter more around people I'm more comfortable with, or probably more accurate to say people that I'm excited to talk to.*" I see. I found a reddit poll about this exact thing you menti...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterAug 3, 2024
17 points

The Stuttering Paradox

The Stuttering Paradox Stutter because I’m nervous but nervous because I stutter ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAnticipating StutteringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
3 points

I have gone through the exercise. I did not stutter at all or at least from what I can remember. Usually my stutter comes up usually during conversations nowadays. I used to stutter quite a bit back w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
1 points

I wish I had that - especially the no anxiety part! I tend to stutter more around people I'm more comfortable with, or probably more accurate to say people that I'm excited to talk to....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
0 points

Saying "it's all in your head" is quite dismissive. That is the equivalent of saying "depression is all in your head". Unless you are speech pathologist, or you have exact evidence that supports your ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/women_who_stutterAug 3, 2024
1 points

lol even if I wanted to, whoever minds that I stutter won’t want to be with me (btw I’m 24)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterAug 3, 2024
0 points

It is just fear. You just stutter whenever you let fear control you. If you feel comfortable in a particular situation, you will not stutter because you don't fear. Fear is not a feeling but a spirit ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more