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commentr/StutterAug 3, 2021
5 points

I’m sorry your boss told you to work on fixing your stutter. It’s equivalent to asking a shorter employee to “Work on growing a bit” or an older employee to “Work on looking younger”....

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Stigma & BullyingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
1 points

In my experience, college is nothing like high school. High school kids are all jerks. People in college are much more empathetic. The thing that worked for me pretty well was, right in the beginning ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportSocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingValidation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

Ha I have the same thing with my family. I just say it’s not a sure way to fix everything, and just ignore them. They mean well but… can go over the top....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
2 points

Thanks to everyone! Your advise will be really helpful! I asked this because i didnt want to asume things, asuming always goes wrong....

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Advice RequestsValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

It is oddly specific to want some partner that stutter, not in bad sense, but in case you have the chance to be in that situation. I as a person who stutter I loved when my partner just ignored that s...

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Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

In addition to what everyone else has said, don't give "helpful advice". We appreciate that you're just trying to help, but honestly if there was a simple fix such as "try not to think about it", don'...

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Advice RequestsValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

Don't tell her to calm down or anything like that. It doesn't help. There is a strong chance that once she feels more comfortable around you she will stutter less. That is how mine has always been....

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
3 points

be active in conversations and show that you are engaged and always listening when she's talking. don't try to finish her sentences or cut her off saying that you know what she's trying to say. hav...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & BoundariesListener Reactions
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
7 points

Be patient and don’t finish her sentences. Stay relaxed and have fun even if she has a strong block. Look into her eyes even when she stutters. If she starts opening up about stuttering don’t downpla...

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Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
5 points

The fact that you’re asking these questions and making the effort to make sure she’s comfortable means you are doing just fine. Being gentle and patient is the best thing you can do....

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2021
6 points

I think that's very useful input! It really underpins that it varies massively. There's almost no universal rule on what stutters like, and often people will take polar opposites. For OP, there's a...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2021
8 points

That’s exactly right! What’s important is that you get your message across as you’ve said. I really admire you for what you’re doing so thank you!...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2021
26 points

“I guess I'm doing something right.” Hell yeah you are. And you’re a doctor, you’re automatically badass. Being a doctor by itself must be really exhausting sometimes let alone with a stutter so than...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
5 points

Your words spoke to me because it sounds exactly like the things I repeat in my head. I’m 21 too and also have a severe stutter. Im struggling through the horrible soul crunch that is looking for a jo...

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Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2021
3 points

I just took intro to communications and it really wasn’t as bad as I thought it was gonna be. Trust me people don’t care as much as we think they do. You got this...

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Validation & EmpathySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2021
1 points

Oh its really sad to hear this. First of all I'd say that I'm a stutterer since my childhood but i managed to make some really good friends somehow. Maybe you should be just good to them and just be...

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Validation & EmpathyDating & RomanceEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2021
1 points

Heck, i don't even know you, and i already like and accept you. 🤗 Ok, cheer up joke...why ***didn't*** the chicken cross the road? 🤷🏽‍♂️ Because there was a **KFC** on the other side. 😂...

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Humor & Community ToneValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2021
1 points

I’ve been there too You are not alone My speech is a little better now but I worked hard at it everyday My confidence is a little better now If u ever feel alone and need somebody to hear u out I’m...

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Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 28, 2021
42 points

A word to you all from me

A word to you all from me Hi, I am (well, it's probably obvious) a stutterer, it sometimes becomes so bad I literally \*lag\* on thoughts. Yes. Thoughts. I see the humor in it. XD \## anyway to th...

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commentr/StutterJul 28, 2021
5 points

This is a big assumption to make with just the information given lmao. I’m 25, I’ve stuttered since 2nd grade, I just got my Masters in May, I’m getting cold-calls from companies about job opportuniti...

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