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postr/StutterOct 9, 2021
54 points

Lonely

Lonely I’m 25 and I don’t know anyone else who stutters and, most days I just wish I had someone who gets it. No one knows how exhausted I am some times just trying to speak and get through the day. N...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Loneliness & IsolationHiding & ConcealmentEnergy & Biological Rhythms
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2021
3 points

I mean same, I always choose latte or raf since it's the words easier to say without a risk of putting myself into an embarrassing situation. I get to drink my favorite coffee only when I'm with someo...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterOct 8, 2021
18 points

Reddits like the first place I get to "talk" to strangers without anxiety or them noticing I stutter.

Reddits like the first place I get to "talk" to strangers without anxiety or them noticing I stutter. Its fun being able to comment on stuff without worrying about blocking. Thats all....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
5 points

That happens to me and it's always Mr. or Mrs. that sometimes it just come out without a stutter and then I see they notice I didn't stutter and my brain is like "oops...we should block the next word....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
1 points

Yeah that's unfortunately common. Personally identifying info triggers stuttering in a lot of people. Picking up prescriptions at the pharmacy can be a bit of a chore for me, since I have to confirm m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
6 points

Back to the office today and I can’t even speak my mind and my stutter is mild nowadays but the fear of stuttering one a singular word because I’m trying to speak perfect. So stress and anxiety induci...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2021
6 points

Most likely because you actively *try* not to stutter while with others. Try speaking before the thought of stuttering kicks in, your speech will be fluent....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
1 points

He probably tries harder to hide it at school. It blew mind when a teacher told my mom that he didn't even know I stuttered....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
2 points

I think that the child tries to speak as little as possible and when it speaks, then just when it's sure it can say something properly. The teachers just don't get to hear it stutter and assume that t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2021
8 points

Does your boss already know your stutter? I disclosed my stutter to my line manager so she wouldn't misinterpret this as me being nervous or scared all the time when it's just a thing about me. She di...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterSep 30, 2021
10 points

I’m a cashier with a stutter. Do y’all have any questions for me?

I’m a cashier with a stutter. Do y’all have any questions for me? Title...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Personal StoriesHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
8 points

They might be covert at school, but more comfortable to express themselves and risk stuttering at home....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
1 points

This is sort of how it was for me. I suspect he’s nervous about other kids being mean, but feels accepted by his family at home....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
13 points

Could be many things. But the child is probably more comfortable stuttering in front of his family, so doesn't try to hide it. But feels the need to be fluent with outsiders, prob because of social pr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
2 points

Haha I used to swear A LOT I'm pretty curious on what you're doing to improve the self consciousness about it.. hows that journey been going?...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Strategic Swearing/CursingHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
2 points

Yeah, I did that a lot in my younger days. Eventually I began to work out before speaking if I really wanted to speak, if what I wanted to say was really worth the hassle, or even if anyone was inter...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterSep 27, 2021
8 points

Am I doing right thing by not speaking in team huddle?

Am I doing right thing by not speaking in team huddle? Hi, I have been in my job (WFH) for last 6 month and my job doesn't require much talking with any one (occasionally with manager). And whenever t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAdvice Requests+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
3 points

This is one of the things that sucks the most. Simple speaking tasks that to regular speakers have no idea how frustrating it can be. We always know exactly what we want. But sometimes just doesn’t so...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
13 points

At Starbucks, I get my order out however my name is a whole other story. I give a different name, and when my order is ready, they are calling the fake name I gave them whilst I'm on my phone totall...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 25, 2021
21 points

For those who’s social skills are lacking because of their stutter or those who are afraid to talk or start conversations with people.

For those who’s social skills are lacking because of their stutter or those who are afraid to talk or start conversations with people. When I was a kid and up to when I was 16, my social skills were v...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftHope & Motivation+1 more