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commentr/StutterApr 17, 2018
3 points

I was the same way and still am. I could never walk out the door with a wrinkly shirt. Ever. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2018
2 points

Male. Hygiene is key, too. Even if I shower the night before, I usually take one in the morning just to get my routine going and I brush my teeth at work once I'm done with lunch. it's all about peace...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2018
5 points

I consider myself as a good dresser. And yea, you're right it gives you confidence. I'm not "too fancy", just like to get dress well. P.S you're male or female?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
2 points

I was nervous about stuttering in front of girls. I found out that I stutter less in front of them. I have to be in a relationship for a few months, before it becomes really noticeable. They never se...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
6 points

I always did a great job of concealing my stutter by choosing my words carefully but when I met my gf of six years she found my stutter to be cute for some odd reason, I got somewhat lucky because sh...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2018
5 points

Practice meditating/Self-affirmations/self love daily, avoid toxic people in your life if not then fuck what other people think, understand that you're trying to be the best version of yourself every ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterApr 15, 2018
7 points

I hate this so much!

I hate this so much! I am what some would consider a textbook extrovert- I absolutely **LOVE** to talk. However, I have a terrible stutter. I’ve made a conscious effort to work on my speech and on t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2018
1 points

I wouldn’t say this is directly to do with stuttering. This could be geared more towards your mental health. How do you sleep? How well do you eat? Is your diet balanced? Having a stutter is a pain in...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2018
11 points

It is the same for me. Personally, I think it is connected with that when I go a few days without talking my thinking goes back to "Stuttering is a big deal!", but when I speak day in and day out I am...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2018
1 points

When I didn't know what to do I found a qualified professional. Maybe look for a speech therapist. Also focusing on a fluency was a downward path for me. Focusing on being ok stuttering and enj/just e...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Seeking TherapyPositive Therapy TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 13, 2018
1 points

I taught English in a foreign country (Japan in my case) for about 8 months. Teaching is pretty “performative” especially among foreigners. I Developed a number of techniques to pass as fluent. It...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2018
23 points

I have a moderate-to-severe stutter and I talk for a living (teacher). You can do it. Yes, it will be hard, discouraging, you'll have setbacks, you'll have terrible days, it isn't fair, etc. You [w...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Severity & FluctuationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2018
2 points

This was my interpretation as well, thanks! It would make it entirely different if he knew all along that the woman was deaf. ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2018
1 points

To live an authentic life our vulnerabilities need to be exposed. That goes for all of us. People who stutter are forced into it early and are forced to confront their vulnerability all.the.time. I’ve...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
1 points

I likely won’t mention it beforehand. I don’t think mentioning it beforehand has been helpful for me since I’m not afraid about them finding out just how my body will react (blinking, jerking, freezin...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Authenticity vs. MaskingPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
5 points

not sure if this will help, but i think mine gets worse and then better. i don’t usually mention it unless it’s to a nice lady at a bar (mostly so she doesn’t think i’m hammered) but a therapist did a...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
15 points

Quite the opposite for me really. I gain a tremendous amount of fluency when I actually talk about my stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
2 points

yeah, it happens with me, too. i don't really like doing self-advertisement, i kind of figure they will figure it out!...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
4 points

Tell people you have a stutter at the start of the talk, it is common practice for me in research talks and all my interviews now. Slightly settles the nerves and gets rid of the "fear of being found ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
1 points

For me, I'd say that "success" would be to feel comfortable and natural in the new way of speaking. When I can focus on slowing my rate of speech, I have pretty much a "normal person" level of fluency...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking