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postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
8 points

My stutter is getting bad again

My stutter is getting bad again I don’t know why but my stutter has gotten so much worse. I’m getting stuck on words and repetition of a word have been so bad that I can’t finish sentences. Half of th...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
2 points

I feel the exact same way. My stutter is already bad but whenever I try to think out a sentence to say first I always butcher it horribly. I always have to say stuff that comes off the top of my head ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
6 points

There’s nothing I love more than telling a joke and then completely botching it while everyone watches, then followed by an always laugh where they knew I said something funny, however they were unabl...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
1 points

I wouldn't say that to someone who stutters. Girls have told me it's "cute" when I stutter and I don't like it. They have no idea the torment I go through to get a word out. That's like telling someon...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
3 points

Acceptance isn't an overnight thing. Anytime I read a post and someone says, "I recently accepted my stuttering" I think what they really mean is, "I recently started the journey of accepting my stutt...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2021
2 points

Wassup homie i dont know how old you are but im 24 and ive had a stutter my whole life it was horrible when i was younger i was in speech therapy and it didnt really change anything i still stutter wi...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 9, 2021
47 points

guys I wanted to know how to deal with my father

guys I wanted to know how to deal with my father He does not have the nerve to endure me as I speak and it is not that I have stuttering so hard but I do not know, he considers this as if I am unworth...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
1 points

I would say (1) don’t complete his sentences and (2) figure out a way to let him vent when he’s had a bad speaking day - but follow his lead. My parents never acknowledged my stutter and to this day ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2021
4 points

You know two people who stutter? I’m still looking for my first ;) Coming to your original question, I don’t know. Stutter can exaggerate low self esteem in some people, it does so for me. A lot of p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterApr 7, 2021
8 points

Presentations...

Presentations... Iam in my final semester of my graduation, and I have 6-7 presentations coming up, these presentations are killing me, it drains me mentally, makes me totally exhausted to prepare fo...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2021
1 points

Similar situation here in that my childhood stutter is essentially gone except when introducing myself. Having recently started a new job, the nerves/pressure are bringing it out a lot these last few ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2021
5 points

They don’t hate you. What you are feeling is hate for yourself. Luckily that is something you can actually control. You can love yourself, even though you stutter. Try to see it in those terms and it ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2021
21 points

That person you suspect hates you has probably already forgotten. Stop being your own #1 enemy. There's nothing wrong with you....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 7, 2021
30 points

I stuttered today

I stuttered today Ugh. I just shifted to a new city and I’m at a restaurant. A person here asked me my name and it just didn’t come OUT!!! I spelled out my name (which I usually do now) and she was li...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2021
3 points

You are not overreacting- those are really hurtful comments that you’re having to deal with on a daily basis. I wonder about writing your parents or friend a note. It could be simple and straightforwa...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
1 points

Yea same. How do u deal with it on a daily basis? How do you cope? I feel like an outsider and I’m starting to get embarrassed by it and ashamed by it...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
1 points

Honestly I’m just trying to get use to this as I’m new to it kind of. And it’s frustrating that I can’t get my words out /certain words, I’m like so ashamed of it and embarrassed by it, I’m just tryin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
1 points

man, we don't have a printer lmaoo. it's not really that hell but it sets me off to a sad mood but i just ignored it most of the times and just continue talking and sometimes i'd say that i forgot wha...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
1 points

Just print out the information then. It must be hell to have your parents scolding you for stuttering....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 5, 2021
15 points

i don't feel comfortable with talking to anyone

i don't feel comfortable with talking to anyone i don't really feel comfortable with talking to anyone, even with my parents sometimes. when i try to tell a story, my mom would immediately take notice...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment