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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
10 points

That's sooo relatable for me, i remember when i tried to say a joke, but in the middle of it i couldn't say a word (only after 3 seconds) and during this 3 seconds my thoughts were (god damn just say ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJun 5, 2021
10 points

I'm removed from clinical rotation ... when stutter can cause danger&death.

I'm removed from clinical rotation ... when stutter can cause danger&death. I'm stutter, also not good at English speaking skills. My voice's really quiet. I have major depression and anxiety. I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterJun 3, 2021
50 points

Hurts everytime

Hurts everytime I have moderate stutter if things are under control, my son is 6 years old and started stuttering from last few months. We are doing everything we can to help him like private Speech t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceParent & Caregiver
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2021
7 points

I disagree a tiny bit. Just because you got through something doesn’t mean it wasn’t painful, anxiety ridden, humiliating, or embarrassing, among other things it could be. Like yea I’ve gotten to 21 n...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJun 1, 2021
1 points

May I ask please, I'm just trying to find a cure as well cause I'm just tired of stuttering i have been suffering since my childhood and i got told that it will disappear by itself when i will become ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 31, 2021
2 points

First time someone did it I got super annoyed and threatened them. I was young back then, like 10 years old. I’m 16 now and I’ve gotten used to it. It still hurts when someone calls me the r word caus...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
4 points

I was my brothers best man years ago. And I gave the speech. Absolute shitshow lol. Very long pauses...blocked on every word. But you know what? Id do it all again. At the time I was still very s...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 29, 2021
8 points

What has been your experience trying to flirt?

What has been your experience trying to flirt? I find it extremely hard. Any time I stutter or stammer, I get very red in the face and lose the will to continue....

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
2 points

I have few incidents in my life when other people(relatives etc) get frustrated of my stutter (which I can clearly see in their face),,, it happens now and then when I encounter them now also.. But I ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
3 points

This happened at a younger age but I truly think it was because some of my relatives truly didn’t know why i was stuttering. Hearing things like “spit it out” as a child certainly isn’t helping anyone...

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Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterMay 29, 2021
7 points

Really annoyed that someone made fun of my stutter

Really annoyed that someone made fun of my stutter Hi guys! Okay so I'll try to keep this short. Basically, I have a stutter but I haven't been diagnosed. I repeat syllables, words, get complete block...

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commentr/StutterMay 29, 2021
3 points

I’m the same way, I never forget the little comments people have made. It’s only ever happened to me twice with very close friends and then of course from family. I think when my friends made fun of i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
4 points

I agree with you 100% and loved the video. It took me 40 years to truly let go of judgement (mine and others) and it’s the only thing that’s worked for me. I think of myself as a Rorschach test and un...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
2 points

I think it's a bit of a loaded question. But I'll be honest, I hate listening to other stutterers for the same reasons I hate my own. Conversations take so much longer, it's much harder to understan...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 28, 2021
3 points

In high school, I would walk into my first class and if a teacher was there, I would successfully manage to say good morning. But if no teacher was there and the teacher would get there after I was al...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 28, 2021
31 points

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude.

Stutter unintentionally makes me appear rude. Hi i just wanted to vent some pent up emotions. So a little history, even though my stutter was apparent from a young age my parents just always denied it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

I can't keep a tab open because I always stutter on my last name. So I just immediately close after every drink and that gets me weird looks, but at least I don't have the awkwardness of looking like ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
5 points

My parents were the same when I was growing up. It made me feel guilty, like I was doing something wrong but as I got older I realized that it was a part of me and honestly it made me a better person ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
2 points

I thought on the same lines many a times that itself it would bring down the anxiety in me. When I look back I hate myself faking around people that I'm normal not the times I stuttered....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
45 points

I would prefer to be mute

I would prefer to be mute I know this can sound somewhat controversial or exaggerated but, stuttering can be so exhausting, putting aside all the anxiety problems and that stuff, sometimes i start fee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more