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postr/StutterAug 8, 2024
19 points

dang mcdonalds drive thru gets me every time

dang mcdonalds drive thru gets me every time thank god for the app but sometimes you cant customize it, like little bit of ice cream or asking for a cup of water. i had to order today but the guy kep...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
0 points

Honestly no. I was in accelerated classes as early as elementary school and graduated with a 4.9 GPA. I do think they could’ve been more strict about letting me get out of presentations. Their hearts ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
School & Academic LifeAvoidance & Substitution
postr/u_StutteringMuffinAug 8, 2024
1 points

Me

Me Yes I stutter, but only because my mouth can't keep up with my brain. Oh, and Games. Lots and lots of Games!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionStimulants & Caffeine
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
9 points

I am a music entertainment manager who has to speak to people everyday in meetings, studio sessions, and over the phone. I compare it to driving and sliding on an ice patch. You have to turn into the ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
1 points

Hii I’m sorry this happened to you! I’ve been in customer service with a stutter for 8 years but how do I move to management if I can’t even use a tannoy to make announcements it’s awful! FairPlay to ...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 8, 2024
8 points

Anticipation is Hesitation

Anticipation is Hesitation I was watching the olympics yesterday. 100m hurdle race. One of the athlete flinched a little on the gun shot and resulting in her finishing last. The commentator said that ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 8, 2024
1 points

Who are you to say I do not struggle with the intensity of stutter where people say my name wrong and I don’t think it’s worth it to give them the right pronunciation and give up and say nothing, I ha...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
4 points

Well said. I joined the military and picked a job that was customer centric. Definitely a mistake at first but it helped turn my mild/medium stutter to mild. Only way to get better is talking. I didn’...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
0 points

Thanks for your input. You are lucky that you do not struggle with the intensity of stutter where you end up giving a false name just give up and say nothing! Having occasional repetitions of blo...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
2 points

Honestly stuttering differentiates from person to person so we can’t really judge how each individual feels when it comes to this issue. I have been stuttering since I was 6 and at first even my paren...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
1 points

true but it’s hard to find people that will wait for you, especially college kids who scroll tiktok all the time and have the attention span of a fly. unless i talk to fellow stutterers i have to expe...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
1 points

“It’s awkward” they scream to themselves as they motormouth frantically into the conversational chasm they see as a threat to humanity...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
2 points

like a lizard eating a fly😭😭 yeah it’s rlly unmotivating and leads u to believe damn maybe they don’t wanna talk to me but i think everyone has ipad kid syndrome these days and legit can’t wait that...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
8 points

Bingo. Watch their eyes glaze over while you build a sentence and then at the .5 second pause they blink and seize the conversational reins like a lizard eating a fly....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & SubstitutionLoss of Control
postr/StutterAug 7, 2024
32 points

having a stutter has made me realize how much people love hearing themselves talk

having a stutter has made me realize how much people love hearing themselves talk i would say 99% of the people i encounter don’t care that i have a stutter, and would continue to talk to me regardle...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Listener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
0 points

Thank you. I've had this issue on and off since age 4-5, and then constantly from age 7 (genetic and chronic anxiety), with almost all words, including my name. I had speech therapy but it didn't hel...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
1 points

There will be always a lot of “IFs” and don’t think that the stuttering is the only reason to not achieve your dreams. I realized that a lot of people have a lot of blocks even if they’re not stutteri...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 7, 2024
1 points

I have a buddy in college that would make up nicknames for himself cause he couldn’t say the letter “I” without stuttering and it worked like a charm. Make up another nickname for yourself....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 7, 2024
3 points

Life

Life I always think about the life I would have had if I could talk normally. I was always interested in working for the FBI or CIA ever since I was a kid. I never chased it due to my stutter and it ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 6, 2024
3 points

It’s useless because you’ve already identified yourself as a stutterer meaning you don’t want to improve. You use your stuttering as a tool to get away and not face certain situations. Stuttering is y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more