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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
4 points

I have a cousin that’s 14. He was the worst about my picking on me for my stutter and he got away with it because “he’s the baby” One night, my family, (grandma, his mom, and 2/4 of his siblings and ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFamily Support & ConflictFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
6 points

I'm not anymore, since I realised its not my fault. Whenever they make a joke about my speech, I just remind them that I'm a product of their genes, making them find flaws in themselves. Turn the pers...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2022
1 points

im honestly not sure. ive never once that one day they became an obstacle. when i was younger, id go through phases of letters i could and couldnt say. i remember when i was eleven, i couldnt say el...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesOnset & Life-Stage ChangesStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2022
5 points

Yeah so the police officer thinks you're trying to pull out a gun and shoots you in the face. "Cause of death: stutter" will not look good on a tombstone....

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Stigma & BullyingAccess & Rights
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
14 points

I typically don’t. They get the point. Sometimes I try to use synonyms, like “speech impediment” or “speech issue” or “my brain sucks ass sometimes”. I’ve been pulled over and asked my name. I could...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2022
3 points

Was the initial comment making fun of your stutter? If so, I’ve had that several times in life. When I was a young kid, I would walk away. As a teen, a simple fist to the face solved a lot. As an adul...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
2 points

Im soo sorry to hear that, similar thing happened to me when I was young , I worked in a car workshop and the man who I worked with told me that " If you keep doing this ( he meant stuttering and bare...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
5 points

I actually had to quit my job today because of the anxiety that my stutter caused. Some of my coworkers would mock me and management wouldn’t do anything about it. I would get so anxious and worried w...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 2, 2022
15 points

It gets harder

It gets harder I’m a male working as engineer, I have stuttered my whole life. At some point in my life when I lived in the US I came to accept my stuttering and many people were cool, I got to meet p...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2022
4 points

Look at this way. If someone said something to you and stuttered a little (or a lot) would you discount what they had to say? Or if they had a lisp? Or if they were stood at 4’3? You probably wouldn’t...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
24 points

man talk about blaming someone for their own disability, that kinda stuff angers me good to hear things are going better for you tho...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 1, 2022
1 points

I’m on the other end to this completely. I work full time at a bowling alley. I interact with people daily that I would never speak to on the street. I work front desk, so I’m talking with them and he...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Stigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

yup this. same for my country tbh, stuttering is a sign of low/no confidence so employers tend to not hire those with stutters....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 30, 2022
2 points

Most schools in Italy take into serious consideration your fluency for your grade in oral subjects and presentations, they think that stuttering means you aren’t very confident or knowledgeable to wha...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
School & Academic LifeStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
9 points

Yeah, tech recruiters see stammering during interviews as incompetence. I can’t remember how many times I have gotten “we went with someone with more matching skillset”....

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJun 29, 2022
13 points

Does stuttering affect how capable people think you are in a professional/educational setting?

Does stuttering affect how capable people think you are in a professional/educational setting? I feel like it happens to me constantly and I'm so fucking sick of it. I've definitely gotten this impres...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
1 points

People that mock you for your stutter are the ones that'll mock you regardless of whether you have a stutter or not. They'll just find another thing to mock you on. It is them that has the problem, ...

Identity & Disability
Stigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
2 points

At this point in my life, embrace it. Any person who is going to put you down or talk over you when they know you’re trying to talk, they’re just outting themselves as dirtbags and you don’t have to t...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2022
3 points

I dont get mocked (oppenly at least). I can imagine it can be hard to deal with. People not taking me seriously is their problem....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2022
1 points

It is disheartening that the impediment always haunts you...the most inopportune times as well. But the most important aspect of any hardship is how resilient the person is. When you battle you must ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStigma & BullyingHope & Motivation