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commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
3 points

I think... it's important to be open about these things instead of carrying them around. The contrast between the hidden and the surface is simply not a good thing to have to maintain. See if you can...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Well that's a question I ask myself often actually! I'd love to be more open about it but couldn't make the jump yet. Was even thinking of a tattoo on my handshaking-arm to just force it lol To be cle...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2018
1 points

Oh, so you haven't told anyone? That doesn't sound healthy. You should be allowed to share such a thing! Why do you feel like you have to hide it?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2018
3 points

>It pretty much ruined my night. You should tell them that. If one of my friends of 10+ years did that to me I'd be pretty astonished and I'd want to talk to them. It's completely inappropriate, b...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2018
3 points

Sometimes you just need to laugh stuff off. Lighten the mood. What if you had said, "that was a hard one" and laughed with your friends. Are you open about stuttering? Do you talk with your friends ab...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Humor & Community ToneDisclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2018
2 points

I use avoidance strategies too. It's not that I do this constantly, but everytime when I am under pressure it becomes more natural to substitute words. Maybe I judge my friend to much, because I am mo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2018
3 points

Telling people you have a stutter has actually helped me. I had to read something outloud today and I told my peer I had a stutter, and that made things so much easier....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 26, 2018
2 points

It's good that you contacted your school's accessibility center. People need to be aware of stuttering and should be patient. I have been trying to disclose my stuttering to people, but it's been real...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2018
2 points

what i meant is they didn't specifically tell them i had a stutter. They didn't mention my name. They will just tell them to be nicer to people who have stutters or other speech impediments. When they...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
1 points

Yes? How is the change to be implemented? Is everyone just expected to remember that you have a stutter?...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
1 points

Why not put a note down with your name, what you want to order and explain that you stutter?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2018
2 points

Open up about your stutter. It's hard, I know, been there, done that. But it's worth it! And there are situations and ppl I still try to hide my stutter. Or it takes a while till I have the guts to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
1 points

Yes, my wife knows but she's the only person I have ever talked about it with other than health professionals. ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2018
3 points

Good on you for being open about it. I think of my stutter a screening device, and instead of trying to hide my stutter in the hope that people will like me, I say why not flip the whole paradigm on i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 15, 2018
3 points

You are absolutely correct about that! Many women won't like that type of spontaneous interaction, and one must have the tact to recognize the signs and cut the conversation short if it's not a mutual...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2018
5 points

I recently joined a dating website. Some people say that you shouldn't disclose it until you're about to meet the person so it doesn't put them off but it's literally the second line on my profile. Ta...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2018
2 points

My only comment is that many women don’t like to be approached on the street. I think the sentiment behind it was cool, but if people were rude, I’d venture that it had nothing to do with stuttering...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2018
3 points

If you are ashamed of your stuttering and you want to hide it, try telling people what your problem is. It might reduce stress. People's reaction is not always the same as we picture. P.S. Many sever...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2018
2 points

Best of luck for the upcoming presentation. Ive heard advertising your stutter makes it easy on both sides. You are not trying not to stutter and the audience understand and focus on what you have to ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersPublic SpeakingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2018
1 points

Do your teachers (and friends) know you stutter? Do they know what stutter is? Also, have you tried speech therapy (to help manage your stutter)?...

Social & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersSeeking Therapy