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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2021
4 points

i'm still in the process of accepting it and i have a long way to go to fully accept it. it's difficult. thank you for your suggestion but i think that it wouldn't work for me:( i'm always anxious and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
0 points

No, I just make sure my reality aligns with the current version that is going on in the world we presently live in. So there’s no confusion doing that even if my belief system has to change as it ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

Im not sure what would be entitled about that, unless you feel obligated to use those techniques, which youre not. It remains your own choice. But being entitled requires some sort of beneficial elem...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
1 points

Using crutches (like not thinking about my words but my idea & passion, word linkeage, extreme pronunciation etc.) and mind training (affirmations & visualisation)....

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
8 points

Yeah mate me too, there are also moments when they see you as useless or as if sick, is exhausted....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

I didn't necessarily have a panic attack but with any severe stuttering customer interaction (at work for example) I would cringe at myself afterward. It definitely still takes effort to not overthink...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

Definitely. My therapist describes it as cognitive load. If you're having to think about what to say, that's distracting you from thinking about controlling your stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
1 points

In my experience it is the fact that one must need to stop thinking to speak fluently and it is when you’re thinking and trying to speak that we block because the brain can’t do 2 things at the same t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2021
3 points

Accept it, don't fight it. Find what triggers it through observation. Keep a journal and write down the patterns. Study the patterns and understand that you are making it. Don't be impatient, it ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2021
4 points

I think you just nailed it. You’re focusing on it more so it seems as though it’s getting worse. You thinking about it is what’s making it happen again. I always said that if I expect to stutter, I’m ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2021
3 points

Weirdly, my stutter gets significantly better when I think about it? I don’t know....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMar 26, 2021
44 points

Does a stutter get worse when you think about it?

Does a stutter get worse when you think about it? I stutter in everyday conversation, but I’ve noticed that I stutter way more than is typical for me when I think about it. If someone mentions any kin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
2 points

Oh yeah, I don't really feel ashamed just annoyed but every time I block hard I look away the same way I look away when I think,,, maybe I'm unconsciously trying to jumpstart my brain by forcing it to...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2021
22 points

You should work on it. I think I do well in maintaining eye contact, but when I have a block or feel like I am about to stutter I break eye contact. That’s a no no. Stutter while looking into their ey...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2021
2 points

Try and don't overthink it too much. Just say what you want to say, don't pay attention to how you will have to say it. Fluency comes from speaking naturally, not by forcing some words and blocking so...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
2 points

It's a complex topic, but after years of studying books and articles on stuttering and other psychological disorders, this is what I have come to learn. You must realize the following. What is speech...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
5 points

Alexa and Siri are on a timer. Don’t speak soon enough and they’ll go off. Perhaps that’s enough subconscious pressure to create the stutter as usual....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 17, 2021
10 points

But what fear of judgement arises when we are speaking to the tech like Alexa, Siri etc. There should be no fear of judgement to speak to a voice assistant? Or is it that our brain can't distinguish ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2021
2 points

I know the struggle... i know also the struggle of imagining what to say and how the conversation might eventually go but at the time when the first "Hi" is said my mind goes totally blank and after i...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2021
5 points

Widen your vocabulary. You often know which words will cause a stutter. Try to word differently and avoid hard words completely. That got me from a nasty stutter to a mild one. Reading was my krypto...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring