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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
14 points

Love for you buddy. It will improve for sure. I´m 30+ male been stuttering since 5 years old. A little advice that has work for me is understanding that the judgement of the people is not really the...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
6 points

Sort of. I consider my self as always trying to perform high. My self steem is strongly linked to that idea. Every activity I do, I try to perform at the highest level. I got a weird idea that I do ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

I saw that thread. I think while we all share the common trait of being people who stutter, dating is so different for men and women that in order for the OP to receive advice he had to specify. I rel...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

You’re not crazy and stuttering is all mind. I have a hard time with these made up terms and over-intellectualized diagnosis. I’m 52 years old and stuttered until my mid 40s, now fluent and speech the...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityOnset & Life-Stage Changes
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
1 points

My point was simply that maybe women aren't on the sub as much or talked about as much because there are more men in the world that stutter. Just saying, that might be the reason some women might seem...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

Soooo. What is your point? That women stutterers aren't relevant on this sub bc there are more men statistically that stutter. Why should it matter who stutters the most? I didn't know it was a compet...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
3 points

do stutter, even mildly, tit wrecks my self-concept as a fluent person....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

Sorry for butting in on this post. I’m a 31M who spent his first 28 years of life deeply covert and ashamed, feeling so isolated, and until recently I had no idea how much harder it can be for someone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
2 points

24F, from the UK and stuttered my whole life, I’ve only met one other woman with a stutter. I started talking at 4 months old (something my speech therapist would later suspect was one of the causes...

Identity & DisabilityParent & CaregiverSpeech & Stuttering
Identity & Self-PerceptionEarly Concern & OnsetOnset & Life-Stage Changes+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2024
3 points

26f and hard agree, I wonder if there is a space for women stutterers somewhere? A lot of the time I just really need the opinion and perspective from another woman, I think it's so jarring that women...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

> Can you go into this more? Sure. I get comments from men who act like my experience with living with a stutter must somehow be so wildly different from theirs in many aspects. And sure, I bet there...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

>I'm glad to hear that you've come to realize your opinions were harmful and dismissive and that you were open to changing that. Yes. I'm glad the OP posted this and brought this to my attention. I'v...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

I don’t think it excludes women it’s just the fact that stuttering as an adult is more common in males than females. We are one of the “lucky” ones, the outliers. I’m 30F and also stutter! As for dati...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
6 points

I’ve never met a male stutterer before but I would be open to it! I think we would have an understanding of each other that non-stutterers just can’t relate to....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

29F and only one who stutters in my extended family. Have plenty of male family members (dad, brothers, uncles, cousins) who stutter, but I’m the only woman who does. It’s exhausting....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I would prefer they don’t get posted at all. But I don’t think those posts should be banned or anything. The natural conclusion to realizing you’ve unknowingly been hurting feelings, is to adjust wh...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

You are welcome to post from a womens pov. If anyone belittles you for being a women just call them out. The sub reddit does have a bit of women stutters too that you are welcome to join. In past I ...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
7 points

This is just my experience, but anyone who calls anything mental health related a “crutch” has no idea what they’re talking about. Think about it, what is a crutch? It helps people walk who have trou...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

25F here and I have a mild stutter but I agree - it feels very isolating. I don’t know any other women that stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Is confidence the main thing why I stutter

Is confidence the main thing why I stutter I have noticed one thing whenever I am not confident so I stutter a lot and I have seen it have affected me badly, how can I overcome this…...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception