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postr/StutterMar 25, 2022
26 points

Just got my first internship offer!

Just got my first internship offer! As the title suggests, I got my first internship offer as a transportation engineer despite having a mild to severe stutter. I've had imposter syndrome almost every...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHope & MotivationHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

I try even though everyone I know *knows* I have one. It's just instinct at this point. I can't help it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

I heard that. I didn't really see at stuttering. It's probably because I'm used to hearing a different type of stutter...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Really? Listen to the first minute. I say “shop-shop-shopping’s fun-fun for like the first five-five minutes but a-after that it’s boring” Besides that I honestly didn’t stutter a lot tho...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Repetitions & ProlongationsHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
6 points

I genuinely couldn't hear you stutter. I just assumed you used "filler words" most of the time......

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
3 points

It took a few minutes but and sometimes it’s hard to keep it up. It’s really hard to explain but instead of pausing and holding a throat block, I would force myself to repeat the word until I could sa...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 24, 2022
44 points

I’m a cashier and stutter, I wanted to post how most transactions go. Here was one from earlier today!

I’m a cashier and stutter, I wanted to post how most transactions go. Here was one from earlier today! ...

Meds & SubstancesSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Helpful Med OutcomesQuality of LifeHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

Man that last line hit hard. I feel like I’m at the age where I’m a “man” and not a “boy”. Being insecure and scared for what I was given isn’t gonna help me any. If I act weird and scared because of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
9 points

Reading aloud helped me to create a new, almost stutter-free identity. When you hear fluency from your lips many hours a day, your self-image will slowly change....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Thank you! The tricky thing is allowing myself to stutter fully around coworkers and not try to hide it. Someone at my work made fun of my stutter while I was trying to hide it so with him still here ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride+2 more
postr/StutterMar 24, 2022
17 points

I’m finally accepting my stutter and it feels amazing!

I’m finally accepting my stutter and it feels amazing! It’s gonna take some time to truly get this down. When I’m around like coworkers I still try to hide it as idk how weird it’ll be to randomly hav...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHiding & ConcealmentListener Reactions+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Congratulations!!! You've taken the first step in owning it by acknowledging that it doesn't define you. I didn't have my epiphany until I was 28 and I'm still learning how to "own it" everyday 13 yea...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

I need to re-accept mine It’s weird because I’ve had a stutter as long as I could remember but I never worried about it. I just accepted I was a stutterer and didn’t care how I sounded to other peopl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

Yeah I noticed that. I make tiktoks sometimes and I hardly ever stutter when I do. Also when I stutter I look away from the person, I’m trying to fix that too...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Talking in the mirror helped me a lot. Look yourself in the eye and talk. The more you’re used to speaking to someone in the face, the better your speech will get. Most stutterers don’t stutter when t...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringExperiential Association
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

I wonder how many people identify their stammering as mostly if not all covert or interiorised?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
3 points

Hi! I used to stutter a lot more but I’ve gotten a little better. Only really stutter when I feel I have to prove myself to someone. Before I talk, I take a deep breath, be happy that I’m talking to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
5 points

I’ve never found a way to not stutter. Instead I’d recommend going into it with the mindset that you will stutter and that it’s okay if you do. I like to preface speeches by telling my audience that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentPreparation & RehearsalMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
1 points

It is true that how you perceive yourself will impact how people see you - because you act out according to what goes on inside. I believe that changing how you act out can change what goes on inside....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
2 points

For me(many years) never gone, but got much better controlling it by substituting easy words that fit, without hesitation. It took many years of practice. Unless absolutely necessary, like being asked...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment