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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2018
1 points

I told my SO she has to mouth my vows with me so I don’t stutter that bad or at all. Lol...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2018
3 points

Some people suck. You can try only explain your situation to them (not everyone understands what stuttering is) and hope they’re more reasonable in the future....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 2, 2018
5 points

If it’s my family and close friends, it doesn’t bother me if the joke is aimed at me. I know they love me no matter if I stutter. The only time it bugs me is when they make fun of stuttering to other...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
7 points

I went to happy hour with go workers, some of which I never met. Introductions and small talk can be a challenge, but I got through it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentNeurological & BrainDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
1 points

I mean like I acknowledged it out loud that I stutter. People noticed, but everyone has been too polite to say anything (as a working adult). I was made fun of all the time as a kid and in HS....

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
1 points

What do you mean you “came out”? Do you stutter so little that people don’t notice? ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 27, 2018
5 points

I'd start with speech therapy and regular therapy. One to help you understand your stutter, the other to break the patterns of behavior that you want to change (like isolating yourself for fear of stu...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2018
3 points

Yup, I used to try to hide it, but it would ALWAYS backfire. When we don't say we stutter, we act in a way that can be perceived as 'weird' and "confusing" by other people. As soon as they realize it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2018
2 points

Thanks for the link, that's a great idea, it gets the stuttering bit out of the way straight up and it's funny too...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2018
5 points

Been there so many times, the key is to bring it up in the interactions ASAP. Here's how I do it personally: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RevjMKA2Xkk&t=1s ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2018
1 points

You could also say it was something you did ("I stutter"). Or even something elaborate like "stutter happens to me sometimes". As for how these things are interpreted, and what they mean to our self-u...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2018
3 points

"I stutter so I'll try to not keep us here overnight."....stealing this one for future use....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2018
4 points

I would maybe consider just saying something like ”hello my name is ****** and sometimes I stutter” that way everyone knows what's going on and hopefully relieve some of the pressure you would be feel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques
postr/StutterApr 18, 2018
10 points

Big day in my career tomorrow but I'm afraid I can't make it

Big day in my career tomorrow but I'm afraid I can't make it I just moved to dubai, new job with really amazing salary for a junior like me, we are a mid size company and we should work with large mul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2018
49 points

I just conquered my fear of speaking on the phone. It was the first time I did it in 8 years.

I just conquered my fear of speaking on the phone. It was the first time I did it in 8 years. My speech therapist recommended that i make one phone call this week and i decided that i was going to cal...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2018
31 points

Stutter Positivity

Stutter Positivity I've posted on this sub a few times, but I'll introduce myself again. I'm a (now) 19 year old female who has been stuttering since the age of 2. I'm a musician (and quite the comedi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2018
2 points

Oh that’s really interesting. I guess anything is possible then haha. My biggest concern going into medical school with a stutter was “establishing rapport with patients.” Like, how can I maintain s...

School & WorkSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2018
1 points

Advertising copywriter. My job involves a lot of presenting (internally and to clients). I think stuttering has forced me to have a better vocabulary because I would often change my sentence to avoid ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2018
3 points

Yeah it definitely sucks! But, trust me it gets better. High school was hell for me as well. At least for me, now that I'm an adult 27 yrs old, I feel like once I accepted my faith and adapted an att...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2018
5 points

not sure if this will help, but i think mine gets worse and then better. i don’t usually mention it unless it’s to a nice lady at a bar (mostly so she doesn’t think i’m hammered) but a therapist did a...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Cycles & RandomnessAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others