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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
10 points

Yeah. Same. I wonder how much of my personality is molded by, not necessarily my stutter, but how I *perceive* my stutter. The shame, guilt, and embarrassment that I’ve attached to it over my 25 year...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2021
10 points

I can relate . To the point I am thinking of pathetic ways to get my words out . Like writing my thoughts on my phones note and show it to the other person. I feel like less human when I do this...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 27, 2021
3 points

a memory i look back on and physically cringe is my still best friend and i were at starbucks years ago when we were still new friends and i was telling the barista my name and, for context, i'm both ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterSep 26, 2021
35 points

Asked for a Diet Coke, the person was getting the drink and asked me what I wanted and I blocked on "diet" so instead just said "coke is fine"...

Asked for a Diet Coke, the person was getting the drink and asked me what I wanted and I blocked on "diet" so instead just said "coke is fine"... It sucks that a speech impediment can effect your life...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
22 points

Teaching the mental health of Stuttering is very important. Growing up in the late 1970s, 80s and 90s, speech therapy focused on fluency so I always believed that I was broken. I wish my speech the...

Therapy & ProfessionalSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesFriendships & BelongingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 26, 2021
1 points

I truly hope you seek help suicide is not the answer to stuttering! I’ve stuttered my whole life so I get the Bullying and the low self esteem I still have my days! But there’s more to life then your ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2021
2 points

I'm really not a fan of labeling a stutter as something like just stumbling on my words. My stutter is something annoying that I was born with and have to deal with, it's not a mistake that I've made,...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 24, 2021
17 points

Should i feel nervous when i stutter during presentation?

Should i feel nervous when i stutter during presentation? I think i need some inspiration I do stutter. I get scared of stuttering during presentations. Like i start out not stuttering but then i do....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2021
6 points

This was very traumatic for me and that's why I missed the first 2 days of school plus when I had to read out loud, I would excuse myself and go the boys restroom and hang out in the stall. For me,...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 22, 2021
18 points

This was very traumatic for me and that's why I missed the first 2 days of school plus when I had to read out loud, I would excuse myself and go the boys restroom and hang out in the stall. For me,...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
5 points

Yes, the “cleaning the wound” exercise really helped me. Understanding what your biggest fears are around speaking and writing down every time you were embarrassed or botched a speech and or social in...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterSep 21, 2021
2 points

imo you’ve got everything you need to affect positive change a few things that helped me ... a) talking openly about my experiences with stuttering, b) facing my fears and allowing myself to experie...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingShame & EmbarrassmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2021
7 points

I used to be right in your shoes. At 17 I too struggled hard with self acceptance and confidence with my stutter. One of the most humiliating moments of high school for me happened in 11th grade, when...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2021
1 points

I would absolutely be better off without it. It's destroyed my life. I can't talk to people and it's on my mind 90 percent of the day. I won't have children because of this and wouldnt wish this pain ...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2021
2 points

Would i be better without stuttering , fuck yes i would...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
1 points

This exact same issue is happening to me right now! And I don’t know whether or not to bring it up in work when no one has asked me about it .😫 I would just rather not bring any attention to it. But...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2021
2 points

W’s sucked really hard for me as well! I also remember T’s and oh my god I HATED R’s! Every day I used to dread when the teachers had us read aloud to the class. I literally wanted to vomit because I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
1 points

MINE IS SO STRANGE! Some days I can speak and some days I can’t. Others r slow to start but when I keep pushing myself to talk more then words start to flow more easy. I just hate it being on my mind ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2021
3 points

Go for communication or you let the stutter prevent you from pursuing something you want....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationShame & EmbarrassmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2021
1 points

It really depends on the situation. People who make fun of a person who stutters by mimicking the stutter, or by saying things “can’t you just say it normally?” Is really offensive. Your professor is ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMedicalization / Neurodiversity