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commentr/StutterMay 25, 2018
6 points

I am 47 and people still make fun of my stutter, however, when they do, I give them a history of my stuttering. It usually takes about five minutes. I used to think folks thought I was stupid but I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
2 points

For potential cases like this one, I have a card in my wallet from the National Stuttering Association that says “I am a person who stutters”. I’ve never had to use it before, but it’s there as a reso...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
1 points

Imagine if we could get some sort of ID that designated us as stutterers. I mean, some would probably find such an idea abhorrent, but I reckon it'd be useful in some cases where we need to let someth...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Access & RightsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 24, 2018
10 points

Yeah a couple of my friends came out and we went somewhere else, I didn’t want them to have to explain for me though so just said the club was bad. I was talking to them outside when they left and I w...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 22, 2018
1 points

Yes! Whenever I let people know I have a stutter (like a professor) or if I am meeting someone and I know ahead of time. If I let them know, it relieves my anxieties and all the fear of how they might...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 19, 2018
3 points

I never tell people that i stutter, when i talk with them I don't know what they think about me, but 99% of the time they are suprised when it comes out that i stutter, either by me telling them or s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 15, 2018
3 points

>I have never really opened up about my stutter to anyone even my family because of how embarrassed I am of it. This is something you should change right now. You should be able to share something...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
3 points

Hey, I was considering making an individual post out of this topic to connect with stutterers starting new jobs. I wasn’t a cashier but I worked at Best Buy. I was sometimes considered the gaming supe...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 13, 2018
1 points

I've been wanting to get a job this whole year but i've never gathered the courage to go to a place and ask if they would be interested in hiring. The other thing is asking for what you want in fast-f...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersAssistive Devices
commentr/StutterMay 12, 2018
1 points

What are some things that you feel like your stuttering is holding you back doing? How do you handle your stutter in public? I usually just say something like ”hi I am **** and sometimes I have a ha...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 11, 2018
1 points

do you have any tips you use for a better fluency? I would just be honest with people and explain that you stutter that would help put you and the other person at ease....

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Advice RequestsDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

i hear ya, i used to feel that way. to be honest, i think worrying about stuttering in front of other people hindered me from getting into a good relationship for far too long (i've been married now f...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

>On some level, it feels weird to be opening up to a new person about this in a way I've never been able to bring myself to with any of the people I already know. I feel like this is the core part...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2018
1 points

I am a big advocate of disclosing your stutter. If you want to make an even better impression, take the time and tell the teacher in person. Not only does it show character in your part, but it buil...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterMay 9, 2018
2 points

Pros and cons of giving someone a heads-up in advance

Pros and cons of giving someone a heads-up in advance Hi, all. This is going to be part self\-introduction \(for context, and because I'm new here\) and part asking for advice. There's something I've ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 5, 2018
1 points

lol. I didn't have people tease me like that growing up, so I love bobby. I can imagine how hurtful it would have been though. Regarding the finishing your words thing, in addition to nukefudge's advi...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2018
1 points

Yep, I've learned being up front about my stutter makes a big difference. ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2018
5 points

I am sorry to hear. I do a lot of presentations and practice the heck out of them - like 20 times the night before - and that helps me a lot. I know what I am going to say and have confidence with ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
3 points

Maybe next time write down your ideas so if you start to struggle you can read and pace yourself better? I tap my forefinger to my thumb when I tLk, I tap to each syllable. I usually say at the s...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesPreparation & RehearsalDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2018
13 points

Definitely. Had an over the phone interview last year that went horribly, didn’t get the job, and destroyed my confidence. Usually what I do now is at the start of the interview I disclose my stutter ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment