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commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
1 points

This happened to me and I stuttered but I didn't stutter a lot but I still made a fool out of myself...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2021
4 points

The ghost now appears to be a jerk. At some point, it happens to everyone of us. I understand your anguish....

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterOct 15, 2021
4 points

It’s gotten worse

It’s gotten worse I thought my stutter only came out at home but now in public I stutter. I have a presentation in three weeks and I am shitting bricks. It’s hard to control even when I have rehearse...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringShame & EmbarrassmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2021
2 points

I truly don’t mean this in a negative way, but what are you talking about? Haha. Most people know they stutter and suffer from it, you either were willfully blind or psychologically not capable to acc...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
2 points

I played sports at every level in school. Somehow I never really got teased in school. Of course there was a few people here n there but I never really let it bother me in front of them(or ever really...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
6 points

NSFW Was having sex with an ex, went to say something and stuttered so tried to disguise it as a moan. He paused sex and basically accused me of faking it and yeah thats the most funny thing i can r...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 13, 2021
2 points

i've had it happen to me multiple times. People think you are just straight up rude, but its also to long to explain in the short period of time. Best to just get on with your day. You probably won't ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2021
2 points

It does us no good to pretend our speech doesn't sound bad to people. It's a false impression. Gotta push through it and recognize it sounds bad/stupid to people. Honest perspective is important. Lest...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2021
11 points

Could be people that don't find it funny, or they think you're being sarcastic about having a stutter. Don't worry about it, just be aware some people take offense to off-color humor....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2021
1 points

Yeah that's really cringe, I would never do that, same for all my friends who stutter. It really does have a significant impact on our lives and isn't "cute" or "quirky". But to each their own, we a...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 10, 2021
22 points

Escape From Reality

Escape From Reality Hey everyone. I've just joined Reddit and this sub thread because it feels like a good place to share my thoughts. I'd like to share an incident that took place yesterday at work I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 5, 2021
23 points

Anyone else get pissed when you’re stuttering and the person you’re talking to finishes your sentence for you? For me it either gives the impression they find my stutter annoying or they think I’m not capable enough of speaking right which honestly is worse.

Anyone else get pissed when you’re stuttering and the person you’re talking to finishes your sentence for you? For me it either gives the impression they find my stutter annoying or they think I’m not...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
6 points

It was very brave just to raise your hand. You’ll have more opportunities. I think it was just unexpected that you would have to give this 30 second pitch. Next time you gotta just know that sometimes...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2021
7 points

I can relate. Sometimes bad experiences like this one really help you down the line. It may take time to heal, but you will learn from this. Give yourself the time and space to be emotional, and the t...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationShame & EmbarrassmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterOct 5, 2021
13 points

Regret

Regret Today, my tutor group had to pick one person to represent the group in college (a bit like a school council rep). I put my hand up, and was the only one until someone else put their hand up ver...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
3 points

The problem for me is that I’m kind of boring and uninteresting regardless, so it’s not like people are missing out on much....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2021
7 points

I know what you mean. I used to stutter severely, and when trying to get words out I would use all kinds of movements to get over the block, in the end looking like I had a seizure. It got a lot bet...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationBlocks & StoppagesPhysical Tension+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2021
2 points

Totally understandable. I used to get really embarrassed too. I don't stutter a lot anymore but it does happen like I said. If its anyone worth caring about. They wont give a shit I promise you. In fa...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterOct 2, 2021
26 points

My first week of university

My first week of university I put myself out of my comfort zone multiple times. I talked to the bus driver every day, I went to a bar, I talked to people in my degree. I feel like I should feel proud ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2021
1 points

All of the above? I mean I had a problem with literally everything listed. Maybe getting stuck on your own name (mine starts with a T, something I always struggled with) and people starting giggling, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger