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postr/StutterSep 1, 2024
11 points

Stuttering came back

Stuttering came back I’m a 19 year old guy and I had a stutter as a little kid but it went away as I entered middle school. Up until that point I was known as a charismatic, extroverted, easy going pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
1 points

ugh absolutely terrible I hate when they fill my word in a way to turn it into the last word of my conversation so they can start speaking LIKE EXCUSE ME I AM NOT DONE TALKING HERE! it's a way to hu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
5 points

For me it's just that others will see your stutter the way you see it. I sometimes make lighthearted jokes about to make people feel comfortable. Like I had a guy at my school who stuttered but was su...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
3 points

That's really inspiring. I believe your point is that a speech impediment is not something that we all can control, and that it's more or less a spontaneous sort of thing that instead of forcing to "...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
10 points

Here's my stance. The best "fix" is to learn to accept your stammer. Learn to stammer in front of other people and not feel bad about it. Maybe it'll improve, maybe it won't. The point is, you shoul...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2024
1 points

No I already told them some years ago, so everyone of them knows that I have stutter. With the one I want to play I already tried to send voice messages but they can't understand cause I speak either ...

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postr/StutterAug 31, 2024
8 points

A fix?

A fix? I'm sorry, you've probably seen a post like this alot of times but I'm genuinely asking here for advice. Currently, I'm 16M, I started stuttering when I was around 12 (I have memories of talki...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
6 points

It's just a natural part of life. If you are abnormal in any way people will make fun of you, stutter or not. The best thing to do is just ignore them and try to live your life the best way u can....

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 30, 2024
2 points

B words are the worst for me. I do similar things by swapping words around sometimes. To other people, it'd probably be unnoticeable, but to me, it can really make the difference between blocking hard...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterAug 30, 2024
3 points

Need advice to get more confidence

Need advice to get more confidence Hi I'm M23 from Germany. I stutter since 4. I'm very very insecure and have no self esteem about my voice and stutter. I hate my voice, when I hear it, I always thi...

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postr/StutterAug 30, 2024
9 points

For the first time in my life I openly and voluntarily accepted my stammering

For the first time in my life I openly and voluntarily accepted my stammering I'm a University student Fresher, here in my University we have Senior culture (not ragging) but teaching basic disciplin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+2 more
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
1 points

Fake stuttering helps me with this. I know it sounds weird, and I have no clue why it helps, but it does. So if you were going to say “tomorrow I’m going to a baseball game” and you know you are going...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
3 points

When I read the subject line, I expected to hate this post. In truth, I’d say 1 and 2 are tricks; the rest is damn good advice....

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
1 points

Yeah you just give a few fake stutters, like “t-t-today is Thursday” instead of “today is th—-“ [total block]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
1 points

Yeah you just give a few fake stutters, like “t-t-today is Thursday” instead of “today is th—-“ [total block]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
1 points

Pseudo stutter , you mean say aaaaa before the first word ?...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
2 points

Yeah it’s a great trick, especially because stuttering at the beginning of a sentence is much more normalized and natural-sounding than stuttering abruptly in the middle of the sentence....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterAug 29, 2024
8 points

Yeah “pseudo stutters” help me a whole lot. Especially at the beginning. Kind of calms the anxiety too....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterAug 29, 2024
71 points

Tricks that really work for me

Tricks that really work for me 1) if you know that you will likely block severely in the middle of a sentence, fake-stutter at the beginning of the sentence. For some reason this prevents the block, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterAug 28, 2024
1 points

My stutter seems like it gotten worse over the years. I recently tried to talk with my hands. Like every time I speak, I move my hands in different motions in the air to help with my talk in general. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques