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postr/StutterAug 3, 2023
37 points

It's nice having this group

It's nice having this group I've stuttered all of my life as far back as I can remember. I'm in a pretty isolated area of upstate NY and have never met another person who stutters, hell I've never met...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying+1 more
postr/StutterAug 2, 2023
8 points

Anything else I can do to assist in stuttering?

Anything else I can do to assist in stuttering? I have had a stutter for my entire life, ever since I could remember talking I have had it. I've gone through many years of speech therapy and I do good...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & StoppagesFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
4 points

I think it is because some of us feel that we are judged more by our family than others, or we want to impress our family members....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
1 points

Atleast your sons don't stutter right ? That's a blessing....

Social & Relationships
Family Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Mines worse with my close family specifically my dad and older sister. I’m fine with friends and co workers for the most part but the second I try to tell either one of them a story I revert back to t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Experiential AssociationFamily Support & ConflictAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

I also have stutter (F) and my girlfriend accept er me for who I am. Right parson will come along! Also this is such an ick that your parents are telling you that. Sexuality is something very private ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Had the same problem with my mom. But instead of sex, the pressure was applied at getting a job (was attending uni at the time, it was exhausting). I listened to her, and kindly ignored what she said,...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Family Support & ConflictEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
1 points

Thank you. I do exercise routinely and I’ve been consistent over that over the last few years. But I need to write more because that is something that is a positive outlet for me that I don’t utilize ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Personal StoriesFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Yep one of the worse things is not been able to hold a decent conversation with close family, it hurts so much.. I have two sons who I never really sat down and had a good old conversation with.. I'm...

Social & Relationships
Family Support & ConflictLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterJul 7, 2023
8 points

33M I'm assuming your stutter just adds to your insecurities. Just want to get this out of the way but having sex is easy. No guy will ever say no to sex because the girl stutters. You're 22 which i...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceFamily Support & ConflictHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
2 points

I’m not a parent but a kid of someone who stutters. I’m one of 3 kids and the only one who stutters besides my parent. Please don’t feel guilty. I will say it has been very hard and upsetting at times...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Early Concern & OnsetHelplessness & AgencyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
0 points

How so? I'd be passing a possible disability since I also inherited it. So if I wish I wasn't born with a speech disorder, why would I have my potential children go through the same nightmare? That's ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencySuicidal Ideation & High DistressFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

You shouldn’t let that stop you from having kids. I stutter and I got it from my dad but I got 3 siblings who don’t stutter at all, I guess I got the short end of the stick....

Causes & VariabilityParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsFamily DynamicsFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
0 points

💀bro what? "Provide a environment where they don't feel like they did and get them help" your kid is by default lower on the social chain. Whatever comfortable environment you provide them with won'...

Causes & VariabilityParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Genetic & Family FactorsParent Emotions & GuiltFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
2 points

😂😂😂😂y'all are actually evil for having kids knowing how likely it is that they can stutter....

Parent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Parent Emotions & GuiltFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

Knew my parents but never really talked to em much. But my eldest sister would always acuse me of faking my stutter for attention, and my siblings telling me to calm down...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2023
1 points

Sure there is always risk that you pass on the stutter. As my father passed the stutter on me. I hate the stutter profoundly but my dad also gave me a lot of his strength, intelligence and other posi...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyParent & Caregiver
Genetic & Family FactorsSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHome Support+1 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2023
18 points

Stutters who have kids- do they stutter?

Stutters who have kids- do they stutter? I’m wondering how many of you who stutter have kids, and if they stutter too. My husband wants to have kids, but I have such a fear that my child will have a s...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Family Support & ConflictSadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
1 points

Yes, me too, but not exactly mocked, just treated like I was an embarrassment yet nothing was ever done to help me. No speech therapy or medical care for migraines from age 5. They did think I wasn't ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
1 points

That was their go-to when I wasn't just being ignored or treated badly because I was an embarrassment, an imperfect child....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFamily Support & Conflict