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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2024
3 points

Hell yeah! I get hella nervous before interviews too, and I’ve found that calling out my stutter at the very beginning makes all the difference. Shows vulnerability, builds trust, gets the interviewer...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 23, 2024
6 points

Job hunt

Job hunt Hello, I just graduted from university and looking for job in IT area. I have a stuttering since middle school, so pretty much half of my life. My stutter gets worse when I am anxious or stre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterOct 23, 2024
7 points

Struggling A lot

Struggling A lot I’ve tried numerous things with my speech and today it was just the worst it’s been. I had a call with someone and I couldn’t complete a single sentence without any repetition or bloc...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2024
2 points

Propranolol was a game changer for my public speaking anxiety. It doesn’t directly help with the stutter, but I’m less nervous and stutter less because of it. And when I do stutter, it bothers me les...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2024
5 points

SSRIs are a medication class that are a daily long-term medication to decrease speaking anxiety. It has to be taken every day and you don’t feel the effects for 4-6 weeks. Celexa is the most effective...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Helpful Med OutcomesAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterOct 23, 2024
9 points

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it

My crush asked me why I'm so quiet and I'm kind of upset about it Don't get me wrong, 9 times out of 10, people don't have any bad intentions when asking that. It's just that when I was younger, if s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

This just happened to me. Stuttered over like 5 words in a group presentation and I had friends in my group 💀 so I feel like I let them down. It was so weird because I did another presentation two we...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

TLDR : I felt the same way, but you are doing yourself a disservice by bearing that mindset. Improve yourself and if you have your moments so be it. (24M), I'll say the one thing that helped me beco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Dude I'm also 16M and I can guarantee you won't die alone. I'm shy but I used to be even more shy and even though I still stutter (especially in class) it gets better. I try not to let it hold me back...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

It’s kinda hard to do that cause I can’t really control anxiety and frustration on the spot, my mind at that time just thinks about speaking and not stuttering, even tho it’s not working....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
6 points

Be more open with your teacher and classmates you have a stutter. It’s very freeing. Laugh it off. Disarm the negative thoughts you have and anxiety you have about that moment....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

Blocking is frustrating, totally get it:( Your head movements aren't weird, just part and parcel of the block. Only advice is try to be mindful in the moment and don't let fear/anxiety take over. Noti...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 22, 2024
54 points

Shy, 16M stutterer, and I feel like I will die alone.

Shy, 16M stutterer, and I feel like I will die alone. This is one of my biggest fears. Even though my stutter is not that severe is still kinda painful to see guys my age already having a girlfriend o...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Yes, disclosing one's stutter is the way to do it. People aren't used to speaking with a person who stutters and, like you said, that may lead to misunderstandings. Fear will always be present in some...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 22, 2024
2 points

Almost normal speech adult going back to stuttering when upset

Almost normal speech adult going back to stuttering when upset I used to stutter quite bad as a kid, it improved so much as soon as I left home at 18, I think it was caused by having some trauma at h...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
3 points

I prefaced I had a stutter with my last two jobs I got and 100% recommend. Not telling them leaves a lot of room for interpretation of me being nervous or not confident in my answers, as you know. Tha...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
3 points

I'm trying to make a video about it for stuttering awareness day but whenever I know there's a camera I stutter more, does anyone have any advice on how to relax yourself?...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
3 points

Congratulations! Ive been seeking for a better high paying job for 4yrs now. And like you, i stutter severly in my interviews. I cant seem to find employers that will overlook my stutter....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 21, 2024
163 points

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer.

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer. I won't write a wall of text about my life story, the job, or the company. I just wanted to share this to hopefully give some of you hope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 20, 2024
10 points

EMS & Fire // Stuttering

EMS & Fire // Stuttering 28M moderate/mild stutter categorized by heavy prolonged blocks. I work for a major metropolitan fire department in a major northern US city. I’ve been running medical/fire...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more