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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2021
3 points

Rabbi, thesaurus, statistic (even typing it is making me nervous), synesthesia “Rabbi” I think because of a specific incident that may have been the turning point in my stutter. I was in first grade...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionExperiential Association+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
2 points

Your post made me cry. Because I resonate with this so much. I know it takes a huge courage but try sending your prof an email next time telling them that you are a stutterer and they can know the con...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 10, 2021
5 points

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’ve had plenty of “why me” moments and shed many tears over this as well. But you absolutely have to email this professor and be honest about your situation. I unde...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterDec 10, 2021
69 points

Cried My Eyes Out

Cried My Eyes Out I had a short presentation for a project at uni today. There were two of us working in collaboration with two other guys, on basically the same topic. The presentation was to be done...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterDec 8, 2021
16 points

advice on how to cope with being made fun of?

advice on how to cope with being made fun of? for context i am in middle school. i have been stuttering ever since i was little. idk why but my stutter always seems to be horrible at school. i hate it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2021
1 points

Yeah that too. But I usually laugh it off and apologize profusely about the stutter....

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Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 7, 2021
20 points

worries for the future

worries for the future hi, its me again and the title says it all. today i humiliated myself again by almost stuttering (more like, staying silent because i felt a stutter coming on) while ordering bu...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
1 points

i totally agree but since our problems are on the surface, it's much easier for people to judge us based on it. and feel better abou themselves by breaking us down. and stuttering hinders you from esc...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
1 points

mine is pretty severe all the time, and mid to mild around people im comfortable with. but it still makes me avoid certain phrases and words out of fear of embrassing myself...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
3 points

First. I'm sorry. Our stuttering can be so damaging and causes us pain that others just can't comprehend. Second. Don't surrender. Do NOT drop out. Don't let your stutter dictate your actions. If you...

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postr/StutterDec 7, 2021
3 points

University presentation

University presentation I’m 20 yo and I have a stutter since I was young (my parents said i wasn’t born with it, it started after being bullied in elementary school) I was diagnosed with social anxiet...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Trauma & PsychologicalShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
3 points

I stutter way more in my mother tongue than in English or Norwegian. This makes me so insecure when speaking my native language....

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Situational VariabilityAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2021
1 points

I'm sorry but are okay with what? 🤔 People with stuttering? I live In an European country, Finland to be precise. In here people either react with pity or annoyance (I can see it in their face) when ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
11 points

Extract from Mastering Blocking & Stuttering by Bobby G. Bodenhamer

Extract from Mastering Blocking & Stuttering by Bobby G. Bodenhamer The primary secret of stress management for you is to learn how to avoid sending the “danger!” message when you face a physical ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

Same I’ve never had a stuttering problem in my life and now I’m starting to notice me having a stutter. When I start talking sometimes I talk to fast and clutter my words and I’ve never had that probl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & ProlongationsShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
13 points

Job Interviews

Job Interviews Hello, I graduated college a year and a half ago with a degree in Graphic Design. Not to be conceded or anything, but I was always the best in my classes and my portfolio is very good. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
1 points

I mean in a way we are different. But who is “normal”? Everyone is very different and just because you can’t see what their problems or flaws are doesn’t mean they don’t have any. Being a stutterer it...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
7 points

Worst part is that sometimes people think they’re side of the argument is more valid or that they must be right because I can’t articulate my point very well if I’m upset. My mom and I used to argue...

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2021
2 points

An old ex i had (know her intentions were pure but i felt judged and different and just hurt ) she showed me her history ( we were doing bets ) and she forgot she searched shit like how do I deal with...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 6, 2021
9 points

New here..

New here.. I'm 34 years old and have been stuttering since third grade elementary school. Before that I had no issue talking except a lisp when I was like 7 years old. My oldest sister stuttered also ...

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