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commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
1 points

How did I deal with the awkward moments? That depends on how awkward my interlocutor would make those moments. There were people who literally just waited for me to finish talking, and even if my stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2022
3 points

Stuttering is weird and it wouldn’t surprise me if having started your new job without stuttering put a lot of stress on you. Always hoping you’d be able to keep it up, worrying it would come back, un...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 9, 2022
31 points

My story

My story Hi guys, I am a mild to severe stutterer. I suffer from my stutter mentally. I feel like my stutter is holding me back in life and I often think about how my stutter will affect my live in t...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterJun 8, 2022
27 points

Am I the only one who sometimes just wants to smash things and yell?

Am I the only one who sometimes just wants to smash things and yell? Sometimes I get so frustrated from stuttering that I just want to yell and throw kicks at something. I hate it when I stutter in my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2022
2 points

Honestly curious. How do people "forget about" or "hide" their stutter for any period of time?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 8, 2022
47 points

I shouldn't have even gotten my hopes up.

I shouldn't have even gotten my hopes up. After everything I had to go through and months of waiting, my waiver to join the army was denied. I don't care what people say, a severe stutter holds me bac...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2022
1 points

I have endless stories. I remember driving an old boss through a drive-thru (a big fear of mine) and getting stuck with her order. I sat there staring at the ordering station, dripping sweat/shaking,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2022
3 points

You sound just like me. I'm 40 and have found plenty of ways to hide mine. Most coworkers do t know I do, and I have daily conversations with them. I think this is more common than we all think....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 7, 2022
17 points

Having trouble finding a professional job

Having trouble finding a professional job Hello everyone, I was wondering if anyone here has a degree in business and works in that field. If you don't mind me asking, what kind of job do you have? I ...

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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
3 points

I don’t have any serious technical skills, so to make any relatively high salary takes speaking, whether on the phone or zoom. I work for a consulting firm that provides a high paying service. If I so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

I stutter more around familiar people. But I also try much much harder to not stutter around people I don’t know. Probably because I know my family won’t judge me....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
5 points

I wish I could not give a fuck, like I did when I was a clueless teenager. But out in the workforce, stuttering can affect your job, and therefore your income. I don’t wanna be struggling financially ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
1 points

I have been advised to let people know several times. However I still don’t for 2 reasons: 1. The word “stutter” is hard for me to say, of course lol! Although speech impediment could work. 2. Unfortu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
3 points

Not really but it's hard to tell, I mostly block and a lot of people never realise I have a stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2022
5 points

Besides my brother, one of my ex-colleagues had a stutter, and his was quite severe when it started going (heard jerks and all that jazz). But he was super witty and knowledgeable and not really shy, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJun 6, 2022
55 points

Got my first job!

Got my first job! I've been stuttering my whole life but during the pandemic it's just getting worse as we start online school. I took Graphic Design for my degree and for the last 2 semester it has b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
1 points

Honestly I was in the same boat I put off getting a job as long as possible. I can genuinely say that I am very happy I did because it was a lot less scary that I imagined and it taught me that I buil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
2 points

Yeah ive been starting this. I finished high school a few weeks ago and where im from u sign everyones shirt on the last day. Going up to and asking my crush to sign each other was the scariest thing ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2022
3 points

People see I'm always silent, introvert as heck, weird, not being able to keep a conversation (which I can) and having no friends because I can't make them in person I don't care what people think of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterJun 5, 2022
9 points

how did I get here

how did I get here Reddit suggests things all the time...how tf it know I have a stutter!? Like legit stutter. I've stuttered since I was 5. I'm 31 now. How does everyone deal with theirs? Like with r...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
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