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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
19 points

\>> he's doing nothing to change it You're a type of friend I hope I never find. I have had times where I will keep repeating the sentence so I can speak while stuttering minimally. IDK if I still ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerRepetitions & ProlongationsSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
17 points

I can see how it can be a challenging experience for someone who has never encountered stuttering. Take this as an opportunity for personal growth. This is 100% a “you” problem. Don’t make it a hi...

Community & SupportCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Research & ResourcesSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
21 points

I in no way mean to sound rude, but you do realize stuttering isn’t voluntary, right? As a person with a lifelong stutter, I can assure you than telling him to think about he wants to say before st...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
26 points

Hello! Stuttering is primarily a neurophysiological disorder. It is NOT caused by him not knowing what to say or him needing tho think about it first. The fact he is talking and stuttering without...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2025
35 points

Change your perspective man. Don't pass negative beliefs like the victim mentality and "it's a curse" to your children. You are in the best position to teach your kids how to have courage, not be asha...

Parent & CaregiverCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Home SupportSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Tell people up front. Take all the mystery and stigma away. It’s not a cure but it sure helps—especially if you buy the theory, as I do, that stuttering is what we do to avoid stuttering. Also, it mi...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
1 points

Be your awesome self. Get out into the world. Volunteer somewhere cool like a pet shelter etc. on the weekends. Try out the apps and be upfront that you have a stutter. Maybe go to your local church o...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Friendships & BelongingDating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2025
12 points

I have stuttering issues all my life and have cracked multiple interview. Do whatever makes you comfortablein yourself. Sufferring from a neurological issue is not easy. If telling the panel that you...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
3 points

I completely agree that it really does need to start being seen as a disability. Sometimes I feel like my life would be so much easier if I was mute and didn’t have the expectation to talk. With a stu...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityQuality of LifeSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

Disclose enough to let people know what's going on. The point is to kill the "i'm not sure what's that long pause mean" panic on their side, and the "shit shit shit shit what if they find out" panic o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
1 points

I do so, but tactfully and matter of factly. Don’t wait until you start to struggle. You don’t want it to seem like something you are sharing as an excuse or even a shield. It’s just something you wan...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
4 points

I typically tick any box that says I have a disability, ask for extra time for my stutter, or if not an idea of the interview questions or topics beforehand.  And I additionally say at the start of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 6, 2025
3 points

Disclosing it up front. Like others have said, it lets the employer know about you. In addition to that, it also gives you a chance to know about the employer whether they value your ability to perf...

Coping & AdvocacySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 5, 2025
5 points

Disclosing stuttering

Disclosing stuttering Does anyone believe disclosing the stutter at the start of interview helps anything or messes up anything? I got a job offer yesterday but that employer almost laughed the momen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 5, 2025
1 points

Hmm this here: "My current team are also very supportive, they understand that I have stuttering however they don't count me in while speaking to the client or presentation or something which I agree ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentAdvice OfferedSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2025
39 points

Putting "i have a stutter" on my lock screen

Putting "i have a stutter" on my lock screen So I was looking around to see if I could order a "I have a stutter" pin so I can show strangers that instead of stammering while telling them I have a sta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 4, 2025
1 points

Have no idea what actually happened here because this is impossible to follow, OP. With all the empty lines, we have no idea what was actually said. But if your dad is mocking you for your stutter, y...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Family Support & ConflictSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
postr/StutterJul 3, 2025
0 points

Am I the Asshole for Insulting my Dad

Am I the Asshole for Insulting my Dad **Am I the asshole for insulting my dad?** I’m 13, and ever since I was born, my dad has been *stuttering on purpose*. He doesn’t have a real stutter — I do. I’v...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesStigma & BullyingFamily Support & Conflict
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2025
4 points

I know his hearts in the right place but another thing with growing with your stutter is not caring what people think. The hardest part is your father. Mine I know he loves me but for 33 years if I st...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Family Support & ConflictAcceptance & PrideSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2025
2 points

YES. I especially hate the “hehe, you forgot your own name or something?”. I’ve learned if I stutter through something really embarrassing, I repeat it immediately afterwards, and I may sometimes eve...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others