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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2022
1 points

I’m 21 and a male. I’ve stuttered my whole life and can’t say it’s done anything positive. It’s pretty much destroyed my self esteem and any chance of being in relationships cause I stutter and everyo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2022
7 points

Probably won’t help but this is what I’ve done over my life. I’m 22 now, for the first 21 years of my life I isolated myself and that left me with almost nobody to talk to. At the age of 7 my dad look...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family FactorsTrauma & Psychological+3 more
postr/StutterMar 30, 2022
31 points

just a bad stuttering experience that i wanted to share

just a bad stuttering experience that i wanted to share i’ve posted here before but i thought i’d share an experience i had in public that occurred almost four years ago. one summer at my public pool,...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingListener ReactionsShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2022
1 points

I've not had someone laugh or mock my stutter for a while but I do remember it used to hurt a lot actually. I wouldn't get mad because emotionally it had already messed me up, I would feel embarrasse...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2022
1 points

ive matured enough admit type of discussion will never end well. Strangely the actually speakers with no obvious dyslfluency. Truth is is that the punchlines on these are almost never woth the risk t...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Personal StoriesShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2022
9 points

I agree and I'm surprised so many people here don't mind it. It normalizes mocking stuttering and it shouldn't be said. We shouldn't have to ignore it. It makes me feel bad anytime I hear it, esp when...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 27, 2022
4 points

I know how it feels being terrified of stuttering in front of someone who may know you, but not that you stutter. I don’t have an answer for any of your questions. Every situation is different, and I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
1 points

I've stuttered my whole life, and I know the anger I can feel at myself when I sound like a forgetful rambler in presentations, and have to gain pity smiles from people at school, at stores, any where...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentSeeking Therapy+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
1 points

I would probably say, this is what has helped me, is to say things as casually as you would talk to yourself. More often that not, even if you find yourself stuck on a word, you will regroup quickly i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

I felt that way when I was 16, I regret it now at (early 20s age). Stuttering makes everything in life 2x as hard from job interviews to talking to women....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & CareerDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2022
2 points

I stopped having crushes on women and that helped me because in my mind she just a normal woman and I just talk to them like any other person it was all in my mind for me....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2022
1 points

I've literally had my mother make fun of my stutter to my face before lol. Also when I was a teenage waitress I got my fair few comments like 'retard' and 'spaz'...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2022
2 points

its the first 3 options for me. whenever i have a block while talking to someone, theyd just stare at me weirdly and it would make me feel very conscious about how i speak. when i have a serious block...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & StutteringSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentPhysical TensionFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
1 points

No one really reacts. Some may make fun, and that's fine cause I make fun too so it doesn't seem as bad too me. But mostly, people just sit in silence waiting for me to get done and in some ways, that...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
postr/StutterMar 24, 2022
16 points

I fucked up the oral presentation of my master thesis because of stuttering

I fucked up the oral presentation of my master thesis because of stuttering So I'm near the end of my College program and it was time for everyone to present their degree projects today. It went *dece...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Public SpeakingShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Well done, this is right approach. I wish I'd been able to do that but, unfortunately, suffered 30+ years of shame and embarrassment. Wish you well....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
2 points

Ehh doesn’t matter, at least we learn to have thick skin. But I’m sure a lot of us are used to it by now....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2022
4 points

The feeling of not being good enough or being seen as anti social or not being able to be in your best is what hurts me the most, people may try to relieve you like take a breath or calm down but what...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
4 points

I don’t get embarrassed or phased by what people say about me, at this point I’m just used to all of the laughing and the teasing....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2022
6 points

Mine started when I was 5 or so. Gradually taking hold. I became so fearful socially, going to school. I couldn’t understand how others around me in school appeared to have no difficulty speaking in c...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more