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commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

i’m sorry to hear that. i hope you’re better now, my messages are always open if you need someone to talk to. i understand how you feel i’m the same when i’m in public. i sometimes stumble on words an...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
2 points

No, it really doesn't. You feel more shame with blocking and stuttering in the adult world. It holds you back from career opportunities, etc. A lot of people on this sub like to sugarcoat things, but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
1 points

Yes, i ll have to work on that. I m giving those stupid and rude people to much power over me. And yeah overthinking, unavoidable best friend❤️‍🩹...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2022
1 points

Yess! I have like periods of times when i think “whatever i dont care” but sometimes they are being so rude , it makes me feel so bad about myself and than i cant stop thinking how embarrassed i am:(...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
5 points

I would love it but it secretly brings my insecurity out. When i was school, a friend of mine who used to make fun of my stutter once joked that i would only find a girl like me who stutter and then y...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2022
9 points

Some people even asked my why do you talk like that why don't you talk smoothly? Da fuckk I can't that's why...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 11, 2022
24 points

They way people see me

They way people see me Guys, i dont know what the fuck i should do. I went to the doctor’s appointment and first, in the reception when saying my address I stutter the girl got so confused, gave other...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
8 points

no fr i would be like "...i forgot haha", but im afraid that if i do this too often people will think im stupid LOL...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
3 points

After I was laughed at for stuttering once when I was 6, I taught myself from to avoid words that make me stutter while I’m in public. It used to be a lot harder but now I’m basically unable to stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
3 points

lol it's pretty brutal when people say things like that and completely go back on themselves. what's wrong with you, do you have a speech impediment or something? uh...yeah *dies inside*...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2022
10 points

I was at a cool, really hip secondhand store. The clerk was very happy to see me and "ooh hello hello! How Nice of you to be here today! welcome! did you find anything at your liking? I hope you di...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+1 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2022
10 points

What funny stutter story do you have?

What funny stutter story do you have? Today I was talking my friend through a situationship and got stuck on the word "company". The kind of stutter where I get half way through the word and then just...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2022
9 points

It's very poor advise and usually given by people who don't know much about stuttering. If a child is avoiding speaking, feeling shame, trying hard to force out words and looking distressed, or having...

Parent & CaregiverEmotional Experience
Early Concern & OnsetShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2022
2 points

I mean having no legs would be worse than a stutter imo. But that's not the point. I get where you're coming from. I've been accused of being burnt out because of my stutter. People straight up think ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2022
1 points

i know exactly what you mean. im 16 and dont really have a social life. most of the girls ive dated have been close to me for years so even when i stuttered around them it wasnt a huge deal. but going...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 6, 2022
3 points

omg same. sometimes when i have a really bad block, the other person would just be staring at me like 🤨 or 😬 which makes me feel even more embarassed...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentListener Reactions
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
9 points

I wouldn't say it's the worst, but I agree that stuttering is a serious disability. I have a rare eye condition and have lost most of my vision. Being blind is incredibly hard. It makes doing nearly e...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionQuality of Life
postr/StutterApr 5, 2022
11 points

Stuttering and tics

Stuttering and tics So I know when you stutter it's normal to have tics, like hand movements or face movements but lately I have been doing this one really embarrassing tic, when I stutter I will open...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterApr 5, 2022
11 points

Self disclosing with kids

Self disclosing with kids Hello, I recently got a fabulous job managing a nature preserve and museum, however, one of the big parts is doing museum and preserve tours and I'm super nervous. I introdu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 5, 2022
6 points

I have other disabilities than a stutter, both mental and physical, and tbh stuttering is not the worse, but holy shit it's the one that brings me the most self hate, I am clearly neurodivergent, I ha...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingQuality of Life