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commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
1 points

Yeah, sure, that's interesting. It doesn't change my opinion or experience, though. I remember when people I'd known for a while found out I had a stutter and they'd say, "Oh, you hide it well." I'm ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 18, 2022
1 points

Hope Gerlach-Houck has a great blog post on the redefining stammering website where she talks about the paradox of concealment. It's well worth a read. https://www.redefiningstammering.co.uk/the-parad...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 17, 2022
2 points

While not zoom or FaceTime. I’ve found it hard at first to watch myself on twitch or YouTube. While I love creating the content, it was rough watching myself stutter. It’s gotten easier though to do, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 16, 2022
2 points

For the past couple years, I’ve acted like a dick. I didn’t talk to people unless they approached me. I’d rather come across as rude than have a stutter. I’ve changed that now and now I’m actively t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2022
1 points

Losing eye contact makes it harder to work on anything else. It's like the ultimate form of hiding from your stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2022
4 points

Same. There's so much on here about people hiding their stutter, choosing whether or not to disclose, working in call centers etc. My stutter is so bad the only way to hide it is by not speaking. I ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 15, 2022
2 points

Theirs more likely gonna be less severe stutters then moderate stutterers. That’s all your seeing. And if I’m honest I can hide my severe stutter, I just won’t talk. I wouldn’t worry so much....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterAug 15, 2022
24 points

I feel isolated even from the stuttering community

I feel isolated even from the stuttering community I want to preface this by saying I don't want to put down, shame, or denigrate anyone or their struggles. I just want to vent a little. I have a mod...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencySeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
2 points

Me too. My stutter is the most manageable when I first meet people. Once they become aware I stutter, my fluency totally collapses....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
3 points

Eye contact aversion - That is super super common. Please try going to a random store to ask a random question - and holding eye contact through it. Worst that can happen is it’s extra embarrassin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterAug 14, 2022
3 points

I always avoided eye contact because I thought subconsciously that if I looked away that they wouldn't hear (or see) me stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 13, 2022
5 points

I've come to conceil my stutter very well, so while I would technically stutter and earn money, the others wouldn't even recognize it most of the times. ka-ching!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
1 points

I'm not just paranoid about my stutter, I always assume the worst which doesn't help anyone, or any normal situation. It was funny, a little awkward too because they didn't really know what to do. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Hiding & ConcealmentRepetitions & ProlongationsPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
2 points

I feel that. I'm always paranoid as well and convince myself that everyone knows that I stutter so it is a pleasant surprise when they tell me they didn't notice it. Hahah your story made me laugh. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
2 points

That reminds me of my colleagues. I thought everyone I work with or speak to regularly would know I have a stutter. Apparently they do not lol made me feel better but I still feel paranoid about it ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
1 points

When I’m talking with a pretty much stranger somewhere where I am confident about my knowledge and have gone past the difficulty starting speaking....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterAug 12, 2022
1 points

I work in a call centre and it's alright. No one mentions my stutter, no one seems to care but I still worry about my stutter, but that's only because I'm taking emergency calls. Regardless, you shou...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2022
1 points

I'd be up for a zoom call! 40m here. Ive stuttered my whole life as well. I did therapy for a few years in grade school and hated it. I do stutter a little now but have taught myself plenty of tec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentFluency TechniquesFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2022
2 points

It's the opposite for me somehow. When I talk to strangers, I have my guard up and I usually don't stutter. But when I talk to close friends or family, I stutter tf off...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterAug 11, 2022
3 points

Severe stutters can really impact how you socialise, even if people don't hold it against you. I physically cannot join in and joke around in the same way my peers do. Humour is about timing and tone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life