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postr/StutterJun 28, 2024
23 points

I had to be nerfed somehow

I had to be nerfed somehow Does anyone sometimes feel like this? Im tall, handsome,funny, play soccer/football for my national team, straight As in school, not to sound cringey but im popular amongst...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationSituational Variability
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2024
1 points

Agree with lots of the points below, and another point to add… she may just not be emotionally and mentally ready to try and improve her stutter. From my personal experience and watching my younger si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2024
2 points

Agree, there is no reason at all you should pursue the things you want in life. Yes a stutter can be an obstacle at times, but it doesn’t define you and you are not going to let it hold you back. Th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

It may be difficult, but you should never let your stutter hold you back. If you don't pursue the career, you will regret that decision. The only thing to do is go for it....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

The great thing about us is that we have real experience, we know what it’s like and that gives us that upper hand in fighting for others. The fact you are able to go out and be willing to fight for o...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Hope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
1 points

Hope and optimism are great, but I’d think some people would want to know there are ways to directly address the dysfluency that are not cures, that can directly positively impact a PWS sooner....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
1 points

I'm an SLP who worked at a stuttering camp for a summer (and specialize in stuttering the rest of the time). This observation from camp has always stuck with me. These are generalizations, there were ...

Therapy & ProfessionalSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Therapy ExperiencesSchool & Academic LifeEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
1 points

I'm glad I was able to relieve you of some anxiety. I began stuttering when I was 3, and I'm 23 right now. I've suspected that some traumatic moments had caused it, but the fact it turned out to be ne...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainHope & MotivationPropositionality & Weight+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
1 points

I don't offer just to "Iwait". I want to instill HOPE, i.e. optimism in people's minds. As for your Buddhism experience- it's not a cure. for stuttering. It helps to fight anxiety......

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
7 points

I go to the gym and take the classes. I met a lot of my friends that way! Do i stutter in front of them? Yes. Do they car? No. I’m pretty extraverted which helps, but honestly most people are super ni...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
3 points

Like many of us in this group, I’ve been there. Being unable to communicate is completely frustrating, made worse because we don’t have a visible disability and some people think we are just anxious o...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Helplessness & AgencyResearch & ResourcesHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
1 points

Yes she is fully in charge of if she goes to speech therapy. She loves her speech therapist and looks forward to it. But I check in every 6 months to make sure she still wants to go. Also, at this poi...

Therapy & ProfessionalCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
2 points

Thanks so much for your comment. I do want to add that it is fully her choice to go to speech therapy. She has a wonderful relationship with her and looks forward to going. There were many years where...

Therapy & ProfessionalCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
2 points

Same age, same position just a different mindset, what I did was practice, practice and practice. I was so much angry on my situation but I don't wanna waste my life regretting so I choosed working fo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2024
2 points

Stuttering feels so bad because we try to avoid stuttering at all cost, but as we’ve experienced, the more your try to resist stuttering, the worse it gets. This is a vicious cycle that you want to co...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
3 points

As someone who went to speech therapists for a long time and was forced either by parents or school administration it was very difficult to find the motivation to want to go especially when they taugh...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Therapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy TechniquesHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
4 points

I am 20 and throughout the years have had countless people say to me "why don't you just do [insert thing that causes me to not stutter] all the time?" And the reason that I don't is extremely difficu...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
1 points

No need to wait for technology! In fact, you can start this very minute, but it’s going to require very uncomfortable work Also, while i go to a Buddhist meditation temple regularly, that is unlik...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
2 points

Thank you so much for all this information. It is so helpful. I really appreciate it and it’s true, she really does well when she is out somewhere new or in nature. I will do that ❤️...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJun 26, 2024
6 points

While there is hope with upcoming technological advances as V R or Elon Mask experimental bionic technology, I recommend read and try philosophical approach ( as Stoicism eg) and/or Buddhism. It hel...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Hope & MotivationMindfulness & BreathingPsychedelics & Microdosing