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postr/StutterDec 14, 2024
8 points

Big Presentation

Big Presentation I have a big presentation coming up. I've never presented in my life. I've tried to practice multiple times but things remained the same. What should I do? I've emailed my professor a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2024
3 points

For everyone in here: This description is close to hypervigilance which can very well be a trauma response. If you feel like you are constantly on edge or feel like your past has been a little more th...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2024
3 points

I can't quite answer your question but I would like to point your attention to something. You likely want to change your stutter because you don't feel comfortable or even in the wrong for stuttering....

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
8 points

Pendulum of Stuttering Phases

Pendulum of Stuttering Phases Anyone else have a stutter that goes through periods of being really bad and then almost going away? It seems like it gets worse when I'm lacking confidence or feeling an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

Me too. I’m getting tired of the throat and jaw tension that comes with me being so deathly afraid to repeat syllables a few times. I’m so afraid because I don’t want to stand out negatively. I don’t...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Physical TensionAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
10 points

Needed to hear this. I bombed an interview a few weeks ago and didn’t get a dream job of mine. Been down in the dumps sense and feel like giving up. Congrats man...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
2 points

To stop stuttering when saying your name you have to practice that, the rest I'm not sure, don't be so hard on yourself, your bioligy predisposes you to get triggered by the events you mentioned, I kn...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
1 points

I think both! I had that same as you... well for me I had it bad as a child but at around aged 14 it was not too bad, but at sged 20 it got worse when i was told i needed to do a presentation at univ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
13 points

I stutter and want a job (advice please)

I stutter and want a job (advice please) Hey, I am new here and would like to get some advise from PWS with a job or someone who can give me advice. Background: From the age of 5 I stutter, especiall...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
8 points

I was very sensitive to facial expressions too. It helped me a lot to improve my speech when i met someone like that, and started to have long conversations with him. I mean someone who shows true res...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 13, 2024
11 points

While people might not have best reaction to our stutter, it is also helpful for us to be less sensitive to other people’s reactions, for the sake of our own mental health. For me I used to be hyper ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 13, 2024
52 points

wait..not everyone’s an asshole?

wait..not everyone’s an asshole? I was talking to my boyfriend about this last night. I genuinely still get surprised when I meet someone kind. Someone who never mocks my stutter, treats me less than...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
3 points

Hey, I've been there, I completely understand everything you've written. But do you know what I got from your message? That you don't even give yourself the chance to think that you'll be able to over...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
1 points

What do I think happens? I think people talk about me behind my back, assume I’m weak, stupid, afraid, boring, etc… I assume women think It makes me unattractive. The faces I make doing it can be p...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterDec 12, 2024
2 points

It took too long to realize that focusing on slow, deliberate speech and managing anxiety made a bigger difference than striving for perfection....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

True and i am a muslim so it will be hard for me to get married because in our society men are supposed to be masculine and be leaders . So i am cooked ,because i suck at ordering things or about ask...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
2 points

Vice versa!!! I can't stand my blocking, my mum makes me feel insecure for it so it makes me feel even worse, despite everyone else being so supportive. But I just hear that and think, why would someo...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
1 points

I appreciate that! I had similar thoughts about being able to prove it. It is just very disheartening to think that we (PWS) have to be judged based on something that we have no control over and somet...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
6 points

If your struggle is talking with a listener but you are able to articulate perfectly when alone, then practicing the easy thing will not make a bit of difference. Always confused when someone says it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterDec 11, 2024
9 points

I know exactly how you feel. I even pause, try to say the words, then move my words around and people are like ??? 🙃😅 it sucks. I always say it’s like I’m stuck in my head. Nobody seems to truly...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment