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commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
1 points

Yeah, I just use the word advertise because that's what I've heard it called most in stuttering circles. But whatever works for you...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
2 points

That's the goal but it's much easier said than done lol. Like a lot of other people I stutter much more when I'm advertising than in normal conversation...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
2 points

I use it to "advertise", but I don't think of it as that. I think of it as informing. They don't know what it is so I'm just filling them on in what's going on. If they understand me when I tell them ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
1 points

Swing by in person if it’s close enough. If your boss isn’t there, say you’ll be in the area and ask when they’ll be back or ask them to give your boss your message about your schedule. Later on, give...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
5 points

Yeah, it happens so much to me that I generally just start the call by advertising my stutter. Advertising is weird at first but it gets easier with every phone call, and I find that my mind isn't tak...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
4 points

Just start the conversation by saying you stutter and may need some extra time....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 1, 2020
1 points

That's what a lot of my friends and family tell me. Even strangers after I try to explain that I have a stutter. They usually say, "And? I got what you meant. You're fine.", and almost immediately, I ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
1 points

That's happened to me as well. I try to substitute words as I am talking. As for the job interview, I'm pretty sure they thought you were nervous. I learned to disclose my stutter in the job int...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJan 31, 2020
1 points

No problem. Something else that will help is presenting well and actually talking a lot. When someone meets a stutterer for the first time they're going to think something is wrong with them mentally....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2020
2 points

Umm I dunno that is hard. If you can muster the courage I'd say just speak up even if you stutter. Group interviews must be looking for the person that stands out. If you can Be friendliest most out g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2020
3 points

I've always just been upfront about it straight away in interviews. Show them you are OK with your stutter and they will be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2020
5 points

I think people rarely feel annoyed, just that it is akward. The key for me at work, always, is to break the ice. Joke about your stutter or be open about it, I mean Its not something you can hide anyw...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
3 points

Same here! I forced myself to step out of my comfort zone and just do it. Did I stutter? Of course. Did I keep doing it, YES I did. I learned that by disclosing my stutter, it allowed me to educ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
1 points

Thanks for your response! And yeah that sounds about right, I think I’m going to say it in the beginning, then try and sneak it in but do what you’re saying (use it as a way to show my character as a ...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2020
23 points

Oh that's so so sweet! Reminds me when my SO ordered a few things from the internet and went to the shop for the items when they arrived. The shop assistant asked for the order's number (which was qu...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Personal StoriesStigma & BullyingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2020
1 points

If they don't catch on, I would recommend telling people about it if it becomes noticeable. People are usually chill about it with me....

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2020
1 points

This is the way to go. Let her know up front and she might even find it cute. She'll never have that chance if you hide/avoid....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2020
1 points

Just tell her you stutter. She'll find out anyway. I usually say, I stutter, I'll say what I want to eventually..I'll just sound like shit doing it. Bear with me. Bare with me. We either dress like ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
19 points

I always find that telling someone I stutter beforehand always helps, and if they don't want to go out just because you stutter/block then they aren't worth your time....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2020
2 points

Another Saudi who stutters! You're the first who i met here. When i took my IELTS i brought in with me papers from my speech therapist that showed that i did have a stutter and gave it to the examiner...

Coping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Fluency TechniquesDisclosure & Telling Others