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commentr/StutterFeb 18, 2020
5 points

Phones really are the worst thing as there's no visual cues to tell the other person that you're trying to speak if they just hang on a second. The pressure to say something on answering tends to make...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 16, 2020
21 points

Looking for a mentor

Looking for a mentor Dear friends, So I’ll soon be graduating university and entering the “real world”. I have a summer internship at a big company soon and would love to have someone I can talk to/as...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2020
100 points

I introduced myself!

I introduced myself! I just wanted to share a little victory with all of you! I was shopping with my future MIL and ran into one of her former high school friends. I typically depend on people introdu...

Community & SupportAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyAnticipating StutteringDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2020
2 points

well, if they actually do, then i would take it as a very genuine, mature way of building a connection with you. i remember being a young guy and thanking my lucky stars whenever someone would do that...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2020
1 points

hey- i would like to help rationalize a few of your (perhaps recent) realizations about when you do and don't stutter, what i've found it's meant for me and my blocking stutter, and then also lend som...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2020
5 points

Weekly Wins w/c 10.2.20

Weekly Wins w/c 10.2.20 I posted about doing this and got some positive responses but then forgot to make a new thread! So here we are at last! Post your victories, big or small, this week and celebr...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2020
1 points

having a conversation about it may seem embarrassing or awkward but it will just help to have a better understanding of each other and better communication ! he’ll probably be glad you asked instead o...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2020
2 points

i think that people are generally scared to ask questions about stuttering in fear of embarrassing or upsetting the person, but when somebody asks questions it helps to have a better understanding and...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2020
1 points

i think college is so much better than high school. it’s all first impressions, so a lot of introducing kinda sucks but you can be whoever you want yk? what i do is tell the audience (or even just peo...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2020
2 points

You are 100% correct! When I tell them I have a stutter, they apologize and I take that time to educate them so that it doesn't happen for the next time. Also, it shows strength and courage when yo...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2020
3 points

People ask me if I forgot my name or just laugh awkwardly all the time, and I know it's just a defense mechanism from feeling uncomfortable more times than not. Just recently, I was on the phone wit...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling OthersBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2020
2 points

I let them know that Inhave a speech impediment and that I may have difficulty speaking. Many of the rude customers apologize and some don't, either way, that's their problem not mine....

Social & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2020
1 points

For me it was owning it. Just telling any person who could become a part of my life or someone who i meed to work with that i stutter. Stuttering doesnt make you less of a man or a human. Its not som...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2020
1 points

don't need to disclose it except for a passing comment when you first start to have difficulties. I made some jokes about it in the interview i had for the company im currently working at and it seem...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
2 points

I do it and it's always worked out well for me because it educates them what you have and what they will possibly see or hear during the interview....

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
8 points

I would mention your stutter early in the interview. Perhaps the first thing. I read in a Larry King book "how to have a conversation" that you should mention your thing at first so that people know w...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
2 points

I asked the same question to my advisor/conductor of my mock interview in my internship class before graduating undergrad a few years ago. He said that he didn’t think it was necessary, and it shouldn...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social JudgmentTherapy Experiences
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
14 points

I let my stutter disclose itself. The first time I block I'll just say something along the lines of "excuse me a moment, I have a speech impediment". I've never had an interviewer openly have any is...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
postr/StutterFeb 4, 2020
22 points

Disclosing Stutter in Interview

Disclosing Stutter in Interview I've posted this on r/jobs but I want to see what people here have to say. What is your experience with disclosing your stutter in interviews? When do you disclose it? ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 2, 2020
2 points

Phone calls are the worst. What helps me a lot to release some stress and anxiety is to start telling that you have a stutter....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others